Evolving intimacy: Embracing the Changes of Marriage Bed

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The other day, I talked about the need to let go and keep moving forward, and what we miss when we don’t. Today, I want to apply it to sex.

No, I’m not suggesting that you need to let go of your sex life! Stay away from it.

We usually stick to effective methods. Even if it doesn’t work, we keep it on. We tend to be particularly bad about it when it comes to sexual behavior.

If you are struggling to find a way to sexual acts that work for you and your wife, it is understandable to think that you need to guard it. But our minds and bodies have changed, and things that are great may not be great now. That’s OK, and then it might not be good now.

I’ve been having sex with the same woman for forty years. It’s still great and much better than we started. But this is different. Over the years, it has changed in size. Some changes find something better, while others find something effective because what we have been doing is not very good. These changes are why we still want and enjoy sex.

If you want to enjoy sex for the rest of your life, you have to be willing to let go and keep moving forward.

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