Do the words you use for sexual things turn her off?

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Yesterday I was discussing with a woman on XY Code the words they use in relation to sex. I advised men not to let their wives use the same words they use for their children, and most people don’t like cold, clinical words like “vulva” or “intercourse.” You’re welcome.

Today, I want to talk about the words you use. Many women are put off by the words their husbands use during sex. This can negatively impact your sex life and even cause her to say “no” when she should be saying “yes.”

Some of the issues have to do with what women consider dirty or obscene words. It doesn’t matter why she feels that way, what matters is that she does feel that way. At best, using these words will make her feel like you’re being rude. It may also make her feel like you’re treating her like a place to satisfy your sexual desires rather than someone you love.

Another reason is that women are insulted or demeaned by certain words. The “dirty words” that refer to the female genitals are the biggest insults. Many women are called this and it is seen as an insult or even a threat. If you use this word, it will not have the effect you want. Other words are also problematic because exes will use them to demand sex or try to get sex she doesn’t want to have.

Ask your wife what sexually suggestive words she least wants you to say. Ask her what non-clinical or childish words she finds acceptable. If she can’t accept any words, come up with some sexually suggestive codes or euphemisms of your own.

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