Many men and women are not aware that they repeat in partnerships or allow similar actions and unhealthy behaviors. The same results will continue until you have your own chair in these unsatisfied relationship decisions.
Some people are addicted to drama. This can make them uncomfortable or bored when things go well. They learn to enjoy the ups and downs of problematic relationships. One of the reasons for doing this is that they become a familiar excitement for them to gain attachment. This is a forbidden fruit that keeps attracting them back!
How do you prevent relationships from ending in the same heartbreaking way?
- The first thing to understand is that the work you allow doesn’t work in your partnership.
- The next thing is to understand the root cause of this problem. What makes you choose the same person as the one who doesn’t suit you?
- What is the common theme of each relationship? Is this the financial or sexual attraction that makes you go back?
- Have you only attracted a certain type and prioritized it? If all your EXEs start watching and acting, this is a big clue!
- Are you moving from one relationship to the next too quickly?
Many people often change from one relationship to the next without spending any time. They are not responsible for what happens when the last relationship ends.
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If you want to move forward and choose a healthier connection, you have to become self-aware. It is important to assume responsibility for the person you allow. This behavior needs to be recognized to prevent you from continuing on the same path of breakage. It’s one thing to be able to communicate with your partner, but you also need to communicate with yourself. It is crucial to understand that one is the true self.
To break the repetitive cycle, there must be changes! You must also admit that allowing the drama to be repeated in a relationship is an option. You are the person in charge of your life, so you need to choose better results for yourself. This will only happen if you are emotionally available. You also have to establish boundaries to get the love you deserve.
Some men and women are addicted to the push and pull habit in a dramatic toxic relationship.
This is a lot more than you think. When things go well, some people get bored and look for a more complex situation. They do not want predictable situations. They want unpredictable excitement and are addicted to drama. Unfortunately, this can lead people to fall into bad arrangements over and over again.
You will find that you have never been the top priority for such a partner. Once the euphoric slows down, things will end again. It’s like a repetitive short-term cycle where you’ll initially get hooked until reality checks again.
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What were the similarities that initially attracted you?
- Will they strive to gain, or challenge in other ways?
- Have all the relationships been compromised?
- Will they love bombs you use gifts and praises?
- Is sex the top priority for them? Will you jump into bed with them quickly?
- Are they always excuses for their busyness, so you have limited time with them?
- Have you found yourself making excuses about what’s going on in your relationship? Do you want to modify the dynamics?
- Do you feel embarrassed when the breakup happens again?
- Will your friends and family see the pattern before you do it? If the answer is yes, then it is time to assume responsibility for the continued responsibility you allow.
Love should not be dysfunctional, abusive or manipulative!
If this behavior resonates with you, you must change the course immediately. Now it’s time to implement the consultation as soon as possible. Getting rid of toxic love is not an easy transition, and getting professional help is so important. There may be some embedded childhood conversations that make you choose these unhealthy relationships. This happens because you are familiar with this destructive behavior.
Acknowledging your lack of boundaries is an important step in recovery. You understand that you deserve better and need to prioritize self-love. Balance and consistency are also essential for romantic partnerships. Your relationship should not be complicated to question every step and feel constant anxiety.
Compromise of reward is always the expectation of your partnership. Although most couples have many similar interests, there will be differences. Maintaining personality is essential to personal happiness. Regular appreciation of each other will develop a bond of love and respect during your years together.
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