Different, may be confusing, but totally effective

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Today, I want to impress you, even though your wife’s needs are different from yours, they are equally effective.

When I say I need it, I mean she needs from you to feel loved and cared for. You do want her to feel loved and cared for, don’t you?

We tend to eliminate the needs of our wives because They are different. We don’t understand why they are important because we don’t understand what’s behind them. We may not consciously ignore her needs, but strangely, we don’t think her needs need our needs. It hurt her and hurt our marriage.

Even if her needs are based on fear, trauma, or lack of childhood They are effective. Failure to meet these needs will not make them disappear. She might stop asking, but that doesn’t mean that the harm is less caused by not meeting the demand.

On the other hand, if you meet her past needs, put her in a better place to deal with the things behind them. Some of these needs disappear over time. New health needs may arise.

You either meet her needs or you don’t. And why you or don’t do that has nothing to do with her.

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