Research shows that 18% of women can achieve orgasm through simple penetration, and this between 50 and 80% of women report rarely or never having orgasm during penis-in-vagina (PIV) intercourse. experts say Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm: only 8% of women have regular orgasms during penetrative sex alone.
Given that we live in a society that portrays penetrative sex (even without foreplay) as typically ending in simultaneous, mind-blowing orgasms for all parties involved, these numbers may seem a little… off.
Here’s the red pill you’ve been waiting for: For people with pussies, orgasm is largely the result of sexual intercourse.
Outdoor course?
Outdoor course can have different meanings depending on who you are and what you are looking for. For some it means no penetration whatever, which includes anal sexfingers and sex toys. Others understand it as anything. exceptt PiV Penetration. And others simply confuse it with dry humping. Although its definition varies, external intercourse is widely understood to include non-penetrative sexual activity that stimulates the clitoris, vulva, and other erogenous zones.
There are more than one reasons to try Outcourse
The reasons why more care should be taken in making the main course a main course are as follows:
– Having amazing sex despite a condition that makes penetration painful. There are many reasons why penetration can cause pain, including: vaginismushas vulvodyniaor even the effects of chemotherapyLife is complicated, and the best we can do is find our pleasure, whatever form it takes.
– Avoid dirty sex during menstruation. Sex during period Periods can be a huge turn on and should be 100% encouraged. However, there may be times when you are on your period and do not want to enjoy its flow to the fullest, for one reason or another. You can instead have sex with your tampon or menstrual cup still in place.
– Be more in touch with pleasure from head to toe. You and your partner both have a capacity for sensual pleasure that includes the many delicious (but often overlooked) qualities of the body. erogenous zones. During sex, stimulation of some of the more obvious erogenous zones (i.e. mouth, nipples, vulva, breasts) is often considered the main event, rather than a sideshow. Apply the same principle to a solo pleasure session to mind blowing masturbation.
– Build intimacy with your partner by trying new things. Exploring new things and learning to set boundaries is essential to building intimacy and trust with a partner. For many, sex with other people is just that: new and deeply intimate territory to explore and learn. Not to mention what we sometimes think of as “foreplay” or kissare right hotter than penetrative sex at some point.
– Relearn what you find pleasurable after childbirth. Whatever the content of your Sex life during pregnancyMany doctors recommend waiting about six weeks after giving birth before having sex with a partner again. This may be to avoid tearing stitches, or simply to give the body a chance to heal and readjust. If the desire is there, what better time to explore other avenues of sensual pleasure?
– Avoid pregnancy. Although it may or may not may not protect you against STIsfor some, practice Extrauterine sexual intercourse is a preferred method of contraception.
Some ways to approach the outdoor course
Dry humpA.K.A rubbing is a form of sexual stimulation achieved by rubbing or grinding against another person or object. It can be done solo or with a partner, clothed or naked. If you are clothed, different materials will feel different. For example, jeans will provide more friction than light cotton panties. Experiment to find what feels best for you. You can also explore different positions, such as Thigh tide.
Mutual masturbation has two variations. The first is when two or more people masturbate One in front of the other. The second is when they simultaneously stimulate each other’s genitals. Whether you use toys, your hands, or both, once you try it, partnered masturbation can become an indispensable part of your sexual repertoire. And because you can enjoy mutual masturbation without touching or being touched, long distance lovers can also go deep.
Oral pleasure is all about the mouth, that ever-powerful source of pleasure. Kissing, licking, nibbling or even biting all the erogenous zones (with consent!) are all delicious prey. While your clitoris (or your partner’s) can of course be the center of attention, don’t forget the territory around it either. The labia, for example, are super sensitive! And the perineum (area between the vulva and the anus) is often neglected and yet so much pleasure is found there!
Massage is a fantastic way to approach outdoor racing slowly and sensually, without immediately focusing on the genitals. While some prefer to work up to a yoni massageThere’s no rule that says you have to go for it (or that orgasm has to be the goal). There really can’t be enough said about how much of a difference a simple relaxing massage can make in your sexual experience. It also turns out that it’s an incredible way to promote intimacy.
Sex toys There are both penetrative and non-penetrative varieties, so depending on your personal definition of intercourse, make your choice! Vibrators are a timeless must-have, and the rock is the perfect example of a non-penetrative toy that’s cute, compact, and designed to help you access your pleasure, stat.
Safety outside of class
Although sex with other people carries a much lower risk of STIs than intercourse, there is still a risk. STIs such as HPV can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact, and other STIs can be transmitted through oral sex. Using barrier methods such as condoms Or dental dams It’s a good idea for some forms of sex with other partners, especially if you and/or your partner are not exclusive. It’s also a good idea to get tested regularly if you’ve introduced a new partner since your last STI test.
Bottom line: Your approach to sex will be exactly your own. The ideas above are meant to get your engine tingling and scratching. Feel free to mix and match these techniques to suit you and your partner(s) needs!
Just one love, baby. <3