Create a sex-friendly bedroom to make her day better

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If you want to have great sex, you have to make your bedroom a great place to have sex. So, let’s take a look at what factors can make the bedroom more sex-friendly for women:

1. temperature: Women run cooler than men. If the temperature is right for you, she may be cool or cold. This is bad for sex. In the winter, a small heater can increase the temperature and keep her warm during sex. A heated mattress with dual controls would be even better.
2. light: I know you want to see her naked in the spotlight. Even if your wife isn’t picky about her body, bright lights aren’t romantic. The twinkling lights are romantic. The same goes for dim lighting. If she has a pronounced body image, red lighting may help her relax.
3. comfortable bed: Is it big enough? Are the sheets comfortable? Are there pillows that would make her comfortable in certain positions?
4. privacy: Unless you live alone, a locked door is a must. Some cover noise would also be nice. Worrying about being walked by or heard will keep her from relaxing and enjoying sex.
5. No clutter: If the room is messy, sex may not be on her mind. If this is your mess, she’ll probably be mad at you. Also, if you just had a heated discussion in the bedroom, that’s a problem. Keep your room tidy, both physically and emotionally.
6. Everything is convenient: Are the items needed for sex nearby and easily accessible? Lubricant, condoms, sex toys and towels should be on hand.

Most of these things won’t interfere with, let alone prevent, you from having sex. But if the room isn’t sex-positive, most women are less likely to say “yes,” and less likely to enjoy it when they say “yes.”

By the way: Last week on The Generous Wife, I wrote an article, “When “No” Isn’t Enough: The Trauma of Forced Sex.” Every man who cares about women should read this.

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