Connection culture is destroying the self-esteem of a girl, author

Taking the sex life of girls in the 21st century is a difficult task.

As if sex and love are not confused enough, today’s girls need to deal with rampant hookup culture, hell landscapes of dating apps, and increasingly pornographic society.

This is where Louise Perry wants to step in and provide some help. In her book New Guide to the 21st Century, Perry talks directly with girls aged 15 to 17 about why she believes progressive feminism is shortening them.

“The main factor I get from the writing process is how bad we are for young people as a culture,” Perry told The Post.

She hopes her book will help young women today avoid making mistakes from millennial exes, many of whom now regret that they are casually dating and sleeping around them in their 20s.

“I’m not talking about quitting alcohol itself,” Perry explained. “I’m actually saying, honestly, you’ll be happier to look back on the whole section of the entire progressive life narrative.

“This is not a forced adventure that you have to go through in your twenties. You simply cannot, in fact, you will live a happier life.”

The book, released on March 10, is a teenage adaptation of Perry’s previous book, The Cases of the Sexual Revolution, a common need for parents to pass on her message to their daughters.

“[Young women] Mothers have been denied guidance, not because their actual mothers are reluctant to provide it, but modern feminism encourages them not to listen [to them],” she wrote.

Some cultural references are tailored to age groups, for example, Perry explains who Marilyn Monroe and Hugh Hefner are for teenage audiences who may not know.

The language in this update has also been simplified, with some graphic details about gender lowered.

But it still comes with a lot of reality checks, such as: “The 1950s “House Angel” hides her apron, and the bedroom modern angel covers her pubic hair.

“She pretends to orgasm, pretends to like anal sex, and pretends not to mind when ‘friends with benefits’ arrangements will cause her pain.”

Perry’s book is a cruel and honest remains of connection culture that satisfy young people and young women feel used.

“I talk to young women and the only sex they used to be was casual sex,” she told the Post.

“They never really had a suitable boyfriend. It was unheard of decades ago, but it seems to be common now.”

Perry notes in her book that the hookup culture has put women in an unsatisfactory dilemma: “The evidence does not reveal a generation of women who are intoxicated by sexual liberation – rather, many women seem to feel unpleasant, crappy sexual behavior out of obligation.”

Her advice: “Only having sex with a man, if you think he will be a good father to the child. It’s not because you must be planning to have a baby with him, but because it’s a good rule of thumb to decide whether he deserves your trust.”

Perry believes that while she favors birth control, it has cultural side effects of eliminating bets from gender: “This drug makes sexual fantasy a meaningless leisure activity. But just because you take birth control pills doesn’t mean you are not emotionally sexually affected.”

Although her message is socially conservative, Perry points out that her books are completely secular and nonpartisan in reasoning.

“I was very committed to writing this original book, and I was 20 years old at the time and when I progressed, I wouldn’t be subject to conservative or religious arguments,” she explained. “It was to convince people who didn’t participate in the program.”

She hopes to attract progressive teenagers who may buy progressive feminist rhetoric hooks, lines and pendants: “Teenagers just don’t realize that this is it without an ideological thing.”

The most important message she wants readers to walk away is that “sexually positive feminism” is “basically coping.”

“Women want to tell themselves that this ghost of fire dating is actually good for me,” she said. “They are soothing the troubles that a sexual culture has created, which is actually bad for women.”

Perry is right, a generation of young women grew up and had no knowledge except a hookup culture, that is, most female college students are choked in bed instead of finding the relationship they want.

More and more young girls awaken some of our sexual culture, but they are attracted by the wrong message – falling back on the return, reactionary trends (like traditional wives) and Rabittle of friends living in their homes.

The girls need an honest and rational voice who tells them like this and gives them the respect they demand for themselves and their bodies during periods of sexual anarchy. With “a new guide to the 21st century”, Perry seems ready to do this.