Cock Rings 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Using a Cock Ring

I recently witnessed the use of a penis ring For the first time ever, imagine this. It’s never been at the top of my sex toy wish list before, probably because the little I knew about cock rings was about the whole blood flow restriction thing, which, to me, was a little off-putting. But my man willingly succumbed to my curiosity and we headed to C-Ring town hand in hand.

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Here’s what I learned:

a) Penis rings are fairly safe, overall, especially if used consciously

b) they can significantly enhance sexual sensations in both men and women in several ways.

Intrigued? Read on, my loves.

What is a cock ring, exactly?

A cock ring is a ring made of silicone, metal, leather, rubber, nitrile, plastic, velcro, or even rope, that is placed at the base of the penis to restrict blood flow, which in turn results in harder and longer lasting erections, which in turn can increase the intensity of orgasms for both of you.

Depending on the desired sensation and appearance, there are many different styles of C-rings. Some may prefer to start with an adjustable ring. Adjustable rings allow the wearer to choose from a variety of levels of constriction around the genitals while still having the ability to quickly remove them if the sensation becomes too intense or uncomfortable. Non-adjustable rings are typically worn behind the testicles and tend to be used by the more experienced. My recommendation: This vibrating penis ring.

What can a cock ring do for you?

C-rings help achieve and maintain harder, firmer erections, even after ejaculation, and can also intensify orgasms. If you like the look of a big, engorged cock, this can help. The rings enhance the appearance of the genitals beyond what the wearer is used to.

Some people find that cock rings allow them to have more intense orgasms because the body has a longer window of time to create sensations (yes, it can also delay the wearer’s orgasm). And because cock rings come in all shapes and sizes, with a range of enhancement features available. They can be textured, have built-in vibrators, feature penis and ball separators, and some even include anal stimulators.

How to use a penis ring correctly?

To get started, choose a ring that fits your needs and make sure you both understand how to put it on and take it off. A C-ring should be placed around the shaft of the penis or around the penis and testicles, as appropriate. Placing it around both results in a harder erection and more intense stimulation.

Note: Make sure the penis is flaccid or only semi-erect when you put it in.

Take a small amount of lubricant and spread it out beforehand inside the ring for ease. If it’s a simple C-ring, you can simply place it around your man’s cock (or give him some tips on how to do it if he’s also a novice) and slide it down to the base of his shaft. If the ring is meant for both the penis and balls (ah, the poetry), then one testicle at a time should be carefully placed through the ring. Once the balls are comfortably inside the ring, your man’s ever-loving cock can then slide through to the other side.

What you want is a cock ring with a firm grip, but still comfortable enough that it doesn’t completely restrict blood flow. A cock ring should not be worn for more than 20 to 30 minutes at a time, although some claim that up to an hour is safe, with a properly fitted cock ring and a consistent erection. If the cock ring is too tight and your man feels discomfort, coldness, or tingling, remove it. Additionally, no one should fall asleep while wearing a cock ring, to avoid damaging the penis during a post-play nap. Finally, cock rings should be cleaned before and after each use, just like any other sex toy.

There are several ways to use a cock ring (hint: you don’t need a biological penis)

If you feel like none of this information really affects your life because you don’t personally own a dick or spend time playing with one, guess what? As with almost everything: no dick is actually necessary (don’t tell the powers that be I said that). You can enhance any dildo by slipping a vibrating ring into it. (This is especially fun for strap-on play.)

In fact, you don’t even need a partner with a penis to enjoy a cock ring. Vibrating cock rings can turn your vibrator into a dual toy that offers both clitoral and internal vaginal stimulation. You can also slip one over your fingers and around your palm for handjobs that create a real buzz for any body.

And if you’re dealing with men and are looking for ideas that are outside the box (outside the ring), you can even use a vibrating cock ring on a man with the vibrating part resting against his balls while you perform oral sex on him. Don’t be surprised if the vibration of the ring combined with the pressure on his perineum drives him more than a little crazy.

Or if you or he likes anal, try wearing a butt plug (this anal plug is 10/10) while he’s doing you with the cock ring in full effect (hello DP pleasure), or have him wear a prostate massager to enhance its already enriched experience.

In short: bonuses, uh… advice

TIP #1: To make it easier to remove the ring, trim or shave your pubic hair, or simply use more lube.

TIP #2: If you are using a cock ring with a condom, it may be best to wear a ring that goes behind the testicles, as this will prevent it from interfering with the condom and possibly tearing it. If you are wearing a ring around the base of the penis with a condom, be very careful and use a little lube on the ring. Soft materials are of course less likely to tear condoms than rings with snaps or other attachments.

As always, a happy and enjoyable gaming time.