Anal Training 101 | Aldult Toys Blog

As Vice as he so aptly put it: “Anyone who has ever experienced anal penetration knows that you can’t just jump fist first into a hole.”

Amen to that.

Butts are fantastic, don’t you agree? Not only are they beautiful to look at, but they’re also full of nerve endings, which means anal sex can produce sensations incredible orgasms— you heard it here first. But, as mind-blowing as anal play/anal sex can be, the fact is that the butt needs to be warmed up first, because unlike vaginas, they do not self-lubricate. It is not to say that vaginas don’t need to be warmed up beforehand, but that’s additional it’s true for the buttocks!

After all, one of the main reasons people are hesitant to try anal, besides the poop factor, is that it can hurt. But here’s the thing: When you’re properly prepared, anal shouldn’t hurt!

This is where anal training comes in.

Um, what is anal training?

Anal training is pretty much what the name implies: taking the time, care, and steps to help your anus prepare (and rejoice!) for anal penetration. How? By gradually stretching it with fingers and/or toys, of course. The training can be done solo or with partners and can be an incredibly erotic experience in and of itself. Not to mention, pushing your limits, so to speak, can really take some time. power play Or dom-sub relations to the next level, if you are interested.

If you are new in analYou may be wondering why on earth you would want to stretch your asshole. But the fact is that no stretching you do will be permanent. Your ass is designed to stretch and return to its original shape. Anal “stretching” simply refers to anything that gradually stretches the anus to allow you to go from one finger to multiple fingers, for example, or a toy, or a penis. That said, in the world of twistThe term is often applied to more extreme stretching, beyond the degree required for ordinary anal sex, sometimes for the purpose of taking toys or objects with a diameter of 2.5 inches or more, or a partner’s fistWhatever your end goals are, today’s focus is more for beginners.

If you are brand new to the pleasures of analYour approach to training will be somewhat different and require a little more patience than if you are already familiar with basic anal play, but the principles are the same.

Anal Training Techniques

Warning: The decision to have anal sex should never be made on impulse, constrainedor worse, an “accident” that your partner walks in on you. If you’re not sure about exploring anal, your muscles will tense up, making penetration more difficult and painful, and no one wants that.

If/when you decide you’re all in, here are some tips on how to approach anal training, whether as a couple or solo.

1. Be clean.

For most people, simply pooping (if necessary) and taking a shower is enough. If you want to be even cleaner, you can look into the enemasbut it’s usually not necessary and is more of a matter of preference. Feeling comfortable and at peace with your ass and all its healthy functions is a necessary part of any anal play. It’s not a given that feces will make an appearance at the party, but if it does, that’s okay.

2. Get excited by touch.

Massaging the outside of the anus is a good place to start. When it comes to the ass, lube is always your best friend, and when it comes to fingers, you can use latex gloves if you want to be able to quickly switch from anal to vaginal stimulation. If you’re with a partner, rimming, otherwise known as anulingus can be pure ecstasy – if your partner is reluctant about this, he or she might try using a dental dam.

3. Get into position.

Once you’re excited and feeling good, you may have even had a vaginal and/or clitoral orgasm Already, something that will help you relax your muscles even more, it’s time to venture out. Start by making sure you’re in a comfortable position: lying on your side with your knees bent may give you easier access than lying on your back, but everyone is different, so find what works best for you.

4. Use a xxxcessive lubricant.

No matter what you use to penetrate your anus, make sure to use enough lube, even to the point of being excessive: it bears repeating that anuses do not lubricate themselves. The lube should be on your toy/fingers as well as the outside of your anus. Also, if you feel comfortable, use a lubed finger to put some lube in your asshole before inserting anything else. Also, never be afraid to pause anything ass-related and apply more lube. For the ultimate anal experience, use Bellesa Water-Based Lube.

5. Enter your asshole with a small toy.

At this point, you’ll want to slowly and carefully enter your ass (or have your partner do it) with a small toy, like a anal plug. THE Bellesa Anal Training Kit is a great choice for beginners and enthusiasts alike, as it comes with several different sized butt plugs, giving you complete control over your anal experience. While you may want to start with a lubed-up finger or two instead of a toy, butt plugs are convenient because you can leave them in while you get on with other things.

So, take a deep breath and start pushing the plug in, very slowly. If it takes five minutes, it takes five minutes. If it feels stuck or hard to insert, remove it and add more lube. Once the butt plug is inside you, leave it there for a while. You’ve done it, you sex addict, you’re officially in training! You might at this point masturbatehave sex (perhaps exploring the delicious sensation of double penetration), or just go about your day until you feel like taking it out.

As with most things in life, the more you practice, the easier it will become.

6. Remove the toy.

To remove the toy, take a deeper breath and adopt a calm mindset, similar to the one you used when entering. Add more lube to the outside of your asshole. Focus on relaxing your sphincter muscles and loosen the toy. Why? Because removing a plug can be just as intense as inserting it, plus the tapered shape of the tip is usually not as gradual as the tip.

7. Move on to the next “level”.

Once a toy feels comfortable going in and out of your ass, you’re ready to move up a size, if that’s something you’re interested in. Always keep in mind, though, that the increase should be gradual. Eventually, if that’s your goal, your ass will get used to not only being open enough to receive, but also the in-and-out motion of anal sex. Once you’re ready to take on a cock or dildo, as with butt plugs, you’ll need to practice working your way up in size, from simple insertion to actual in-and-out intercourse. But no matter how experienced you are, Never Refrain from excessive amounts of lubricant mentioned above!

The course is over. Now you can venture out and put your anal training knowledge into practice. Happy training!