Vacational sex: Resignation

Vacation, especially vacation sex, is somewhat undeniable sexy. The scenery changes, slower speed, relaxed obligations, all of which are fertile for pleasure. Whether you are traveling alone, traveling with partners, or opening up new connections, vacation can be an opportunity to explore new places, but a new level of the pornographic self.

There is room for spontaneity when the response outside the office starts and your daily responsibilities are suspended. You’re sleeping. You daydreaming. You flirt with strangers or rediscover sparks with familiar people. Vacationality is not only about location, but also about existence, possibility and allowance of feeling good.

The pleasure of connection

For some, travel is the perfect excuse to indulge in stringless fun. These rules are far from the routine and reputation of the family and may change, which can be exciting. Whether it’s resort flirting, seaside kissing or hotel room Tryst, vacation connections can bring boldness.

Still, magic doesn’t mean you’re leaving your safety behind. If you are seeking or opening up casualness while traveling, remember pleasure. If relevant, bring more safer sex items you trust, such as condoms, dental dams, lubricants and STI test information. Assume that your destination may not be able to easily access what you like or need. Trust your gut, first meet in public and then let someone know where you will be. Feeling safe lays the foundation for feeling sexy.

Heat with your partner

Couples often talk about “reconnecting” on vacation, but let’s go beyond candlelight supper. Travel can be a playground for exploring fantasy and deepening intimacy. You stay away from bills, laundry and social obligations. What better time to become frolicking?

Even if it is small, you can try something new together. This may mean switching to who initiates, booking a bathtub room or exploring the beach at night. Talk about what can be made love on this trip to make you feel more fun or released. Maybe you want to wear bold clothes, try masturbating with each other or whispering under the stars. Maybe you just want to sleep naked and wake up slowly.

The key is not to have “better” sex, but to have sex like escape from each other. Your daily stress may be left at home. You are here together, together.

Pleasant preparation

Spontaneous sexual feeling is sexy, but some preparation can make vacation sex really pleasant and helpful. If you are taking medication or using hormonal birth control, make sure you have enough travel. If you are in a new relationship or non-monogamous situation, consider testing beforehand and having conversations about STI status, boundaries and expectations.

The skin can be more sensitive in heat and sunlight, so choose a gentle lubricant, and maybe a soothing balm if there is a post-adventure irritation. Drink water. Take naps frequently. take a break. The pleasure of the holiday is not to tilt all day long, but to allow desire to flow freely like your time.

Make entertainment a destination

No matter where your trip takes you, the real joy is in your way Feel There. Sexy doesn’t have to mean loud or wild, it can mean relaxing, curious, and meeting your needs. Whether you’re cheering up, flirting at the Tiki bar, or holding on to someone you love, make your vacation more than just sightseeing. Let it be related to feeling.

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