How to avoid cheating in relationships…Love is blind

Posted by PSEDEN

2025-03-15

On 2025-03-15

As you know, this love is a blind season, full of drama and things to discuss. I will only discuss part of this blog’s purpose – that’s Clay talking about how he’s afraid of cheating on ads. He said many times it sounded more like a threat than a discussion.
Infidelity is an option…but Clay has good reason to worry about cheating due to his infidelity family history.
Clay had the right idea to discuss his fear of cheating with ads, but he did not have the right follow-up or execution.

When infidelity is normalized

If you grow up seeing parents or other role models do something, you might follow it. Even if you see these things and think you never want to be you. Sometimes, even if this is not in our best interest, our unconsciousness attracts familiar people.

How to “deceive” your relationship

Talk to your partner
Clay told Advertisement that he grew up seeing his father cheating with other male role models. He said it made him believe that this is what the man did. I thank him for his honesty to tell her his fear of being faithful to himself. But if sharing these fears with ads is the only thing he wants to stay faithful, he probably won’t succeed.

Seek treatment and understand your values
Clay should seek healing and gain insight into what he saw and what made him feel.
He needs to deliberately figure out the values he wants to have in a marriage related to Fidelity and make sure he lives every day. Simply having the value of “not cheating” is not enough. What values lead you to the conclusion that cheating is not something you want to be part of the relationship?

Sample value is related to fidelity

treat: If you are worried that cheating is something you might see when something serious happens in your relationship or personal life, it is important to commit to regular treatment. This will help you learn to notice and deal with problems as they happen in a healthy way, rather than turning to unhealthy behaviors.
transparency: Share your feelings regularly with your partner. If you feel like you are thinking about cheating and why you think this is happening, please share it with your partner.
upright: Integrity is your way of acting without anyone looking for it. Even if your partner isn’t “catching” you, do you still want to take action?
Long-term relationship: If you are someone who values long-term relationships and/or marriages, then Fidelity will be important to maintaining these relationships.
Self-reflection: Maintaining a healthy relationship and being true to your relationship agreement with your partner requires self-reflection. This means recognizing when you are unhappy, sad, or unfulfilled in your relationship and figuring out what your needs are related to.

Create and abide by a loyal marriage agreement

Do each of us think cheating? Improper behavior that we believe may lead to cheating? Here are some examples to discuss. Note that just because this topic or behavior does not automatically make it cheat or make someone possibly cheat. These are all topics that everyone in a romantic/sex relationship should discuss and reach an agreement.

Watch porn
Talk to former partners
Dating website
What exactly does it constitute flirting and agreement
Spend time with someone who matches the gender of the person you are attracted to
Share intimate details about your relationship with others
View and like sex material on Instagram or other social media
Striptease Club
fantasy
Notice and talk about attractive people – I’m looking at you, Jimmy
Masturbation

Many people find themselves in situations where a partner violates something in this list – a list that never exists in the first place. Many relationships have self-evident agreements, only one person agrees because they have never discussed it with another. These may be horrible topics that couples discuss, but are very important things on the same page.