FF: Why can’t she be like my girlfriend?

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Comment on the recent public opinion survey:If only my wife and my guilty high school girlfriend treat me“” “.

I suspect that many men hold hands with someone before their wives have similar thoughts. If you have more or better, thinking in this way is understandable. What you need to realize is that this is to compare apples with orange juice.

What a woman does before getting married is a driver, desire, desire, has nothing to do with desires, or nothing to do with Preferences, preferred Or enjoy.

Even in most Christian circles, a certain degree of sexual life is needed to duplicate the date. In the marginal deviation of Christian or non -Christian worlds, the expectation is greater. The relationship between dating to seriousness means that there will be more expectations. If you want to get married, it is best to prepare anything he wants to do.

Trying to integrate yourself into this reality is the reality of many young women in Western culture:

You want to accompany, love, and eventually get married. You like men, but you don’t have a huge sexual desire. If there is nothing wrong, you will feel that sexual behavior is problematic. If you are engaged in sex, you usually complete this guy before you really start. At best, they got them, and you didn’t get anything. Even worse, he got him and made you hungry. If it depends on you, you will at least avoid sex until you are engaged. However, you will find that most people are looking forward to sex, and as the relationship continues, people expect more. You think your choice is providing sex that you don’t really want or alone. A person seems to be a worse fate, so you are engaged in sex. You don’t want to do AnythingAnd you will not get too much fun from your work, so how often your job is not important. All this is wrong at the level, so how can you say “I don’t like” or “I think this is wrong”?

Sir, can you understand this? Can you understand that many women have poor experience when they are single when they are single? Can you understand that when they want to refuse, they are “yes”? Can you see why they say “Yes” to what they don’t want to do? They are not real; they are just their role. There are two bad results: it creates what the man who wants to from his wife, their girlfriends do in sin, and neither want to nor sex. When such a man marrys such a woman, in view of sexual problems, they will encounter sexual problems.

If you have the expectations of criminal behavior, then you really need repentance and make expectations as the fruit of a poisonous tree. It is expected that your wife to satisfy these expectations to ask her to pay for your crime. If you keep doing this, you need to deal with it, seek her forgiveness and promise to change.

[This post first appeared Oct 27, 2012.]

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