The Secret of Sexual History: It Will Shock You

The Secret of Sexual History

People have sex… that’s life, and false “virgins” are not common in this day and age, although they are still not extinct. Some people have had sex with 1 person, and some have had sex with over 100 people, depending on their age. The truth is, unless they tell you, you’ll never know, and they tend to keep their sexuality secret. Today we discuss the secrets of sexual history.

Our attitude towards sex has gradually become positive

Even though we are becoming a more sex-positive world and genders are becoming equal, we still have a long way to go and frankly, men get away with it more than women when it comes to their sexual history, but this blog isn’t about equal rights or forcing you to believe that men and women should be equal in every sense of the word. It’s about leaving gender and equality aside and talking about how to forget your partner’s sexual history.

Jealousy is terrible, and you may envy or even resent your partner’s previous sexual experiences, but how do you get over it? You can never accept the fact that your partner has learned and experienced most of their sexuality with another person or multiple others before you, and the more sexual secrets they keep, the worse it is.

Don’t let jealousy take over you

When the jealous green monster decides to show its ugly face, there are a few things to consider.

if Your partner tells you about their sexual experiences That’s saying something! If they told you, it means they care about you enough to be upfront and honest, with no hidden agendas or secrets, just straight up honest with you. Honesty breeds trust, which is the epitome of all relationships, and it also allows you to be honest with your partner without having to worry about bringing it up first. There shouldn’t be any hidden secrets in bedroom sex

With history comes experience, which means all the moves they master have been failed at before when working with other people, which means fewer awkward moments and more passion.

Let the past stay in the past

The past is the past and there is nothing you can do about it unless they experienced those encounters while they were with you. The more sexual secrets are revealed the better because you can’t change the past, that is to say no one has invented a time machine and even if they did, would you really want them to change it? If something in their past upset you, let them know but don’t punish them for something they did before they met you.

To put it bluntly, you weren’t there! So it doesn’t matter who or how many people came before you, now it’s just you, and that’s what matters.

Their past has made them who they are today, do you want to change that? You fell in love with them, their experiences have made them who they are, and at the end of the day, life experiences make people, and if that means they have a past, then so be it.

Work hard to overcome your insecurities and jealousy

There is more to life than just blaming others, you probably have insecurities, I mean who doesn’t? Your partner should be sensitive to those insecurities but they can’t tiptoe around in a relationship either. Jealousy is your own fault, if you are so obsessed with their past maybe you need to stop the relationship, sleep with multiple people, if you can’t get over it then talk to your best friend, don’t fret, it’s the worst thing you can do.

Sex is just sex unless there is passionBe yourself and be the best person they’ve ever had. The best sex will never be with the hottest person or the most experienced person, it will be with the person who knows you best and the person who is most attracted to you. Always focus on your partner, be open and charming, and be yourself!

There was always the question of “what if”, what if they wanted to be with that person again, what if they were more excited about that person, what if the fluids coming out of their bodies were studded with diamonds and gemstones.

Communication is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship

At the end of the day, communication and respect are key, don’t overshare and make your partner uncomfortable unless it turns them on and they want it. Remember, there is a time and place for this conversation, and most of the time, your fantasies about your partner’s past are greatly enhanced by your imagination, and you think you have mastered some Kama Sutra sexual secrets.

What you can control now is how you choose to continue your relationship and not ruin a good thing just because you don’t like their slept-in partner from 10 years ago or how many exes they have had.

The future is yours, and if you want to create your first future with your partner, spend your time creating memories and taking new actions instead of dwelling on a past that you cannot change.

Summarize

Accept your partner’s past as part of their present. Focus on creating new memories and shared experiences together. Let go of jealousy and insecurities to strengthen your relationship. Communication and mutual respect are key to moving forward.

Understand that their past does not define them Your futureHave confidence in your relationship and don’t let past relationships overshadow your present one. Work on overcoming your insecurities and communicate openly to foster trust. Remember, the success of your relationship depends on the love and understanding you build together, not on what went before them.

Morgan x

Meet Morgan, a young designer who advocates for equality and against violence and whose journey in the adult industry has been transformative.