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Maybe you tried it yourself, maybe you’ve only ever heard it as a punchline – but there’s no doubt that fisting exists. And while fisting is a pleasurable sexual activity, it’s still totally It’s normal to ask yourself: “NO SERIOUSLY HOW CAN THIS HAPPEN OUCH OUCH OUCH FUCKING OUCH” Hum.
At least that’s what I thought when I first heard about it. But for many, fisting is a real and enjoyable thing, and a Really a large part of their sex life.
But what is it and why do people like it?
But even though the idea is simple, fisting is something that can take some time to understand – and that’s totally ALL RIGHTSome sex acts require more than a passing interest. Because something as intense as fisting requires openness and commitment. Here’s what you need to know.
Fisting can be vaginal or anal
Anal fisting is often referred to as a joke, too often homophobic. But vaginal fisting is also popular, especially among lesbian couples. It’s not that all lesbians fist each other – they certainly don’t — but, since they tend to be better at experimenting with their hands, maybe It’s no surprise that many of them have tried fisting.
For many people, it’s about fulfillment.
Now, if you’re wondering why on earth anyone would want a fist inside them, you’re not alone. The appeal of this practice is certainly lost on many people. But the truth is, for many, there’s something about feeling full that’s not only intimate but Really brings them down.
You have to take it slowly
First of all, remember that you or your partner may not be able to grip a full fist at first…or ever. You have to work with the anatomy you have. And depending on the size of the hand and the size of the person, it won’t always work. That’s okay.
Start with one finger at a time, and when you have four fingers, try adding the thumb to form a beak, as if you were making a duck shadow puppet.. Then, if the receiver is ready, go further.
The knuckles are the widest and most difficult part, but if you can get past them your hand should naturally make a fist. Once you arrive, keep moving forward. slowly. But — and this is a crucial element that everyone forgets — it is also Really it is important to reach out slowly plus, your joints can still be a tricky area in the opposite direction.
Use all the lubricant
Yes, I talk about using lube a lot, but it’s very important, especially when it comes to fisting. being saidYou may want to avoid lubricants that contain numbing agents. While they are supposed to make the process easier, it also means that you might not feel certain things that you need to feel for your safety, such as discomfort or extreme pain.You want to be aware of what’s going on, so you can step back when you need to.
Preparation is key
With all the lube you’re using, things can get messy — so you might want to put towels on the bed. You’ll also want to make sure your hands are clean, nail polish is removed, and your nails are clean. are cut short. You can also cover the nails with medical padding or wear a medical grade glove for added protection and hygiene..
You might feel weird afterwards
Fisting will never be a sexual activity on everyone’s menu, but some people enjoy the feeling of being totally complete. If it is done slowly And without riskthere’s no reason why it shouldn’t be a great addition to your sex life. Just Make sure you are both comfortable and happy with the experience. If it’s too much, stop, you can always try again another day.
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