An Odd Solution to High Drive, Low Drive

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I suggested this last week on The XY Code. I didn’t get the feedback I would have liked, but one woman said “Sounds doable” and no one screamed, so there is that.

The short version is your wife brings you to orgasm on odd numbered days.

As to how, when, and where that happens, that’s all up to her. First thing in the morning or before dinner because she knows she won’t have the energy at bedtime are valid choices. Hand jobs and quickies are just fine. When she wants sex for her, she’ll let you know. On very rare occasions when she just can’t, she will tell you to do it while she involves herself in some way.

The obvious benefit to this, if it happens, is you get more sex. Much of it isn’t the sex you want, but it’s a start. A benefit for her is the pressure is off. Pressure to have sex is a big deal for women, and can really put them off sex. Some women who followed this plan would start wanting sex for them more as it became their choice.

Another good thing for her is that she’s in control. If you climb into bed and nothing has happened, you can remind her it’s an odd day. Beyond that, you say nothing, and you don’t hint. I know a lot of men think their low drive wife is in control of sex, but that is not how their wife feels. If she can give you what you need and feel like she has some say about it, that’s a win for both of you.

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