7 Ways to Make Oral Sex Easier

Want to make oral sex easier?

You have come to the right place.

As Samantha from Sex and the City once said, “They don’t call it work for no reason.”

Watch your teeth, control your jaw tension, try to breathe through your nose…

At the same time, you should try to maintain enough stamina so that when he reaches orgasm, you still have enough energy to not mess up the ending.

But what if there were some simple techniques that could help you give oral sex more easily? Far Easier.

Well, you are lucky today!

Here are seven simple ways to make oral sex easier for you.

7 Simple Ways to Make Oral Sex Easier

1. Tell him in advance that you want to give him a blowjob

This one may be simple, but it’s incredibly powerful.

By telling him ahead of time (maybe minutes or even hours before) that he will be getting a blowjob later, you build anticipation in him.

What’s the point? It turns him on so much that when sex comes, he’ll come faster.

I mean, think about it. He’s about to leave for work, and before he leaves the house, you casually mention what you plan to do with him later that evening. Now, he has all day to daydream about what the future holds.

If telling him directly is too difficult for you, you can always text him in the middle of the day to give him something to look forward to.

2. Find a position that makes you feel most comfortable

If you choose oral sex positions based solely on how he looks or feels about it, rather than how you feel about it, you’re going to make oral sex much more difficult than it needs to be.

Maybe you’ve never tried different positions and have defaulted to the same ones since you first had sex with a man. If that’s the case, then this might be the best advice for you in this entire article.

If you want to know where to start, you can check out my articles on oral sex positions and masturbation positions (they both have drawings of all the positions) to find the one that works best for you.

3. Use a flavored lube you actually like

I’ll admit, a lot of flavored lubes taste terrible. But if you’re willing to a) spend the money on some quality products, and b) try a few until you find one you like, it’ll make your entire experience much more enjoyable.

The flavored lube market is expanding every year, with more flavors hitting the shelves all the time. Want a taste of birthday cake? Your favorite candy? Pina Colada? They’ve got it all.

Just make sure to use a flavored lubricant that is safe for the body and not actual food. I say this because some people think they can just use whipped cream or chocolate syrup without any potential subsequent negative effects (like yeast infections if you switch from oral to vaginal penetration).

4. Let your hands do most of the work

I’m going to tell you a little secret…

A warm mouth and sufficiently moistened hands are almost indistinguishable from an erect penis if you lubricate them well. In fact, wet hands are often more stimulating than a mouth because of their ability to provide direct pressure.

So whether you’re stroking most of his penis with your hands and occasionally placing your mouth on his glans, or you’re using your hands to touch his testicles, scrotum, perineum, and anus, letting your hands actually do most of the work will give your jaw a good rest and take some of the pressure off of you.

5. Use a condom as your primary masturbator

This is one you may not have known much about before.

For those who are not familiar, a masturbation sleeve (also known as a dildo or penis sleeve) is exactly what the name implies: a sleeve used for masturbation. In other words, it is a piece of rubbery plastic whose only purpose is to provide pleasure to a man’s penis.

Some men have used these, but by far, I think most have not. This is great news for you because you can show him something new.

The great thing about the masturbation sleeve is that it takes the pressure off of using your hands (because you can move the stroker up and down with one hand and stimulate the entire shaft of the penis), and you don’t need to squeeze too hard with one hand either, because the stroker does most of the work! What a great invention!

You can find a variety of condoms/masturbators at any good sex toy store online or at your local high-end sex shop. These toys tend to be on the cheaper side, so you can get some quality products for $10-40. Just make sure to buy a masturbator that is open on both ends (so that his penis head can poke in from the other end, and you can still stimulate with your mouth if needed).

6. Pay more attention to his ball

Most men absolutely love having their balls and scrotum played with. Even more men love having their balls and scrotum played with during the second half of oral sex because it is so arousing.

Paying more attention to his balls will not only increase his pleasure and the intensity of the experience, but it will also relax your jaw. In fact, you can lick and/or suck his balls to relax your jaw, or just use your hands to stimulate his balls to relax your mouth and jaw.

7. Save the big moves for the second half

Every woman who’s had a few sexual partners has her own secret, trusty blowjob technique. You know the one. Those moves that turn him on like crazy. Your unique talent. The one that makes his eyes roll back and he mumble incoherently. It could be your lack of a gag reflex and the accompanying talent for deep throating. It could be the drool running down his penis and stimulating his balls and anus at the same time with your splayed fingers.

Well, whatever your unique talents are, I’m here to encourage you to save those moves for the second half of your blowjob.

Prepare yourself for that. Let the anticipation build so he has an extra turbo to look forward to.

If you play these cards too early, you may tire him out quicker and may actually prolong his wake-up time.

So save your ultimate for the second half of the fight. That way you can conserve your stamina and let him expect some explosive moves.

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