7 Vulva-to-Vulva Sex Positions for Maximum Bliss | Sex Toys

There are a lot of strange ideas floating around about people with vulvas doing the dirty work without even seeing a dick. And yet, despite the usual myths, obsessed with heterosexuality, phallus worship and penetration, sex between women – or between women with vulvas – can be a deeply gratifying experience.

If you’re looking to explore deeper erotic pleasure with your lover/partner/consort of choice (and there’s no penis in the equation), consider trying the following 7 positions for maximum bliss:

1. 69

This is a tried and true method oral sex Position, a move that really matters, baby. One partner lies on top of the other facing opposite directions so that both of your mouths land between each other’s thighs. The 69 allows both partners to give and receive oral clitoral stimulation simultaneously – a delight. And if feeling the weight of someone’s body on yours is too much for some reason, you can lie on your side for a modified “lying 69” position. This variation also frees up your hands to explore your partner’s clitoral area further. erogenous zones.

2. The Queen

AKA face-sitting, this one is great because it provides a direct view clitoral stimulation and the receiving partner can focus on the pleasure of receiving, while enjoying the ability to control the speed, rhythm, and movement. The giving partner lies on their back while the other squats/sits on their face (without covering their nose) and holds on to something for balance, rolling as they please. Important: Always do consent and communication is a frontline practice, especially when a person’s face and breathing are involved. This position also works well with RoleplayOr BDSM Power play dynamics like a demanding dominatrix or a queen and a peasant, if you dare. There is unlimited pleasure available in fantasies, whether they are taboo or not…if you open up to them.

3. Scissors

Scissoring, also known as tribbing, involves two people grinding their vulvas together with their legs intertwined in an imaginary scissor-like position. One partner lies on their side with their legs spread, one leg forward and one leg in the air with their knee bent, while the other joins in, legs spread as well, maneuvering their butt and genitals as close to their partner’s as possible. While scissoring is hot and sexy in theory, it can also be downright hilarious trying to get the position just right, so go in with a sense of humor. That said, when you do get it right, sliding your own wet clit along your partner’s wet clit can be, uh, a mind-altering experience, to say the least.

4. Missionary

If it is true that the missionary position has lasting heteronormative associations, the fact is that it is for everyoneand it’s still popular for a reason. The receiving partner lies on their back while the other lies between their legs. Either or both partners can use their fingers to mutual clitoral stimulationor the top partner could wear a strap harness And dildo for delicious penetrating pleasure if everyone wants it. Adding a G-spot vibration Mixing is also always a great option. For a twist on traditional missionary, explore “double missionary” using a double sided dildo—lean forward or backward, look each other in the eye or not, and lounge.

5. Spoon

If you are the cuddly guy, this one is for you. Lie in the spoon position: the big spoon (the person behind) can lean over and touch the little spoon however they like. The person in front can rub or lick their booty against their partner, lean in to pull their hair, or suck their fingers. This can also be a great position for penetration, with the big spoon wearing a strapor simply using a finger or two or threeAnd while you’re at it, since your faces are so close together, consider experimenting with some warmth and breathing. dirty talk.

6. Cowgirl

The classic cowgirl position is also a contender here! Basically, one person lies down while the other sits on top of them. The person on top can start by straddling their partner and using their hips to rub, stimulating both partners’ vulvas simultaneously. This position allows the person on top to relax, controlling the speed, pressure, and intensity as needed – with the help of the person lying down, of course! And if you can pull it off multiple orgasmsThis might just be the position to aim for gold in. Other things to try in this position include vaginal penetration, anal penetration using anal plugs, nipple clamps, handcuffsAnd to kiss with reckless abandon.

7. Greyhound

Straight couples aren’t the only ones who can enjoy deep penetration, doggy style. One partner positions themselves on all fours while the other kneels behind them, perfectly ready to penetrate the other with their hand or a toy (think strap, vibratorOr anal vibrator). They can also use their other hand to reach out and massage their partner’s clitoris. Alternatively, the receiving partner can stimulate their own clitoris with their fingers or a small atmosphere. Note: If you don’t like penetration and/or want a break from toys, this position can still be enjoyable: just rub against each other without inserting anything at all. After all, the clitoris has nearly 8000 nerve endings—Good morning.

Bottom line: This list is just the tip of the iceberg (or should I say the tip of the clitoris?) when it comes to some seriously hot girl-on-girl or vulva-on-vulva action poses. May you go ahead and experiment until your knees shake!

A love. <3