Women know that men enjoy oral sex. This is a given. But what if you could hear a man’s first-hand response to the question, “What’s the best blowjob you’ve ever had?”

I recently sent out an email to the thousands of men on my men’s email list, asking them this exact question: “Men, please tell me about the best blowjob you’ve ever had.”

Their response did not disappoint.

Below, I’ll share seven of the best written responses I’ve received directly from men. enjoy!

Men describe the best blowjobs they’ve ever had

1. “It’s so good, my hands are numb.”

I’m dating this really cute woman. She has a very nurturing side and I feel she loves me very much. She always does cute, thoughtful things for me and she has a really kind heart.

Yes, she also gives incredible blowjobs.

The first time she went down on me it felt so good my hands went numb. Literally. It was like all the blood was rushing from my limbs to my penis. It’s like she built so much feeling and pleasure into me that my body was like, “Okay, your hands aren’t bleeding anymore…we have to keep up with what this woman is doing here.”

She moved out of the country or I would marry her. Her skills are truly otherworldly. It remains the benchmark against which I compare all blowjobs ever since. ”

2. “I will never forget it as long as I live.”

“My now wife/then girlfriend and I went to a very fancy restaurant. It was the first time we had been there and the first time she had met my parents. She had been to that restaurant once before, and I don’t.

She wore a very fancy (but still appropriate for meeting her parents) outfit that accentuated her figure nicely.

After exchanging pleasantries and ordering drinks, she said something about how she wanted to give me a quick tour of the place. This restaurant has a lot of different rooms, so it makes sense.

But I could never predict what would happen next.

So she took me to the co-ed bathroom. The sinks/vanities are all open plan and co-ed, and there are a bunch of individual bathroom stalls on each side of the room. We got there and she pulled me into a stall. At this point, I still had no idea what was going on because the look on her face was unconvincing. It felt like she was really excited to show me all the different parts of this fancy restaurant, so I thought she was just going to show me the inside of these huge, gorgeous bathroom stalls.

But no! We entered the private compartment and she locked the door and immediately went to get my belt buckle. Within seconds my pants were down to my ankles and my cock was in her mouth.

I kid you not…it was the fastest I’ve ever cum in my life. I could go from completely limp (again, I had no idea a blowjob was about to happen because she didn’t mention it at all) to ejaculating in her mouth within 60 seconds. It’s just that hot. I will never forget it as long as I live. ”

3. “She’s more aggressive than I usually think she is, and I like…”

“I dated this German woman when I was in my early 20s. When we first started dating, she was more aggressive than I would normally imagine.

I don’t know if radical is the right word. She wasn’t dominant or forceful, she was just really into it and kind of attacked every sexual encounter we had.

The first time she gave me a blowjob, she was totally into it.

She moved her mouth and hands together earlier than I usually like. She held me tightly with both hands, tighter than I would normally imagine. Honestly, she was basically fucking herself on my cock.

It’s not just enthusiasm or passion. Like hunger. like her needed My cock was in her mouth immediately.

Her tenacity and desire crushed me. Her desire overwhelmed me. Too obvious. She obviously just likes oral sex and she wants to do it her way I came really hard and really fast. For the rest of our relationship, I would be very harsh and very quick whenever she would go down on me. ”

4. “I’m starting to feel dizzy.”

“The best blowjob I’ve ever received was from a woman who was seriously misplaced about me as a long-term partner, but boy, did we have some amazing sexual chemistry.

We were each in a pretty precarious position in our lives, and I think our incompatibility fueled the passionate fires of our sexuality.

I remember one of the earliest times we had sex, we were playing some more edgy kink-type play, and she was wearing this crazy hot leather suit.

Anyway, after a minute or two of oral sex, I started to feel dizzy. Now, I’m basically a healthy person and I know I ate well that day, so I didn’t have any reason to feel dizzy other than her amazing skills.

If I had to find out what makes her blowjobs so great, I’d say it’s mostly down to her passion. She seemed genuinely happy to be doing it, which made all the difference. ”

5. “She did something no one else had ever done.”

“I once dated an accountant who was the epitome of a lady on the street but a weirdo in the sheets. By day she was a hard-working, normal-looking woman with a 9-to-5 job and a few hobbies .by night she is a devil in a bag.

The difference between her blowjobs and other women I’ve had is that they were very wet.

For example, drool is everywhere. Not only did she not swallow any saliva during the entire blowjob, but she played with it and smeared it all over her face, only to make a mess.

Maybe it’s too erotic for me because I grew up in a very religious country where sex was always very neat, formal and proper… and this is the exact opposite. It’s messy, raw, yet human. From that point on, any sex that involved a lot of wetness or sloppiness (saliva, lube, massage oil, whipped cream, etc.) helped me a lot. ”

6. “My eyes are filled with tears. This is a work of art.”

“The best blowjob I’ve ever had was from a woman who was an absolute natural. She sometimes jokes that she thinks she might have been a man in a past life because she feels like she understands penises so well, and I tend to believe her, haha.

She was so gentle, loving and intuitive about it all. Often, when she leaned over me, my eyes filled with tears. Everything she does is a work of art.

So gentle, sweet and patient. It would take me right into my heart and I haven’t experienced anything like it since. ”

7. “She really takes her time.”

“What a timely question! The best blowjob of my life happened just a few months ago.

My wife and I (we were high school sweethearts and have been together for almost 20 years) just got back from a lovely date night. She sat me down on the bed, looked me in the eyes and said something like, ‘You take such good care of me.’ I want to do something special for you. Then she started giving me the longest blowjob of my life. Now, some people may hear the word “longest” and think, “Why would you want it to be long?”, but this is really something special.

She really spent a lot of time. She was very in tune with my body and adjusted her intensity level based on how I was feeling throughout.

Whenever I was close to coming, she would back up and pull me down. Eventually, the pressure of going up and down was so great that I felt like I was in heaven. There’s something so special about having a partner who understands your body so well. She brings me joy that I couldn’t even hope to give myself any other way.

After at least half an hour (maybe closer to an hour) of pleasure, she put my drink in her mouth and I melted. This is better than I can put into words. I think I bring it up every week and thank her in one way or another. ”

to be the best he’s ever had.

As you can see, there are a lot of things that can give a man the best blowjob ever. But if you dig deeper, you’ll find there are some common bottom lines that guarantee you’ll be the best player he’s ever been.

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Committed to your success,

Jordan

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About Jordan Gray

Jordan Gray has been a sex and relationship coach for over 15 years, working with over 200 million people around the world. His work has been published in Vogue, GQ, The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, and countless other publications around the world. When he’s not coaching one-on-one clients or writing new articles, he can most likely be found reading, chopping firewood, or spending time with his wife on a small island off the west coast of Canada.