VIbrators are best known for playing solo, but did you know they can to be used during sex too?
Think about it: if your favorite vibe makes you reach earth-shattering orgasms, imagine what it can do when it’s in the hands of someone who seriously turns you on…
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The equation is simple: a vibrator plus a bomb equals hell, yes.
(Note: This part is directed to people with vaginas looking to incorporate vibrators into their sexual relationships with cis men. HoweverThe advice applies to all genders.)
Those who sleep with straight cis men may find that their partner is reluctant to use a toy at first. Unfortunately, many guys have internalized the idea that if a woman needs a vibrator, it’s not “enough.”.”
So that’s the general idea. But what about the details? Here are five ways to use a vibrator during sex.
1. Make it part of foreplay.
You can use a vibrator in the same ways—and in the same places—that you would use your hands during foreplay. Have your partner caress you through your underwear to start, then move on to direct contact with your clitoris and vulva..
You can turn it around and use it on your partner as well. Wrap it around his thighs until you reach the perineum (the part between the testicles and the anus) to give him a type of stimulation he may never have experienced before..
2. Place it between your bodies.
Depending on the position, placement can be a little tricky during penetrative sex. How do you use a vibrator when the space between you is tight and everything is moving?
Another way is to get into a “reverse cowgirl” position, which means you’re on top with your back facing your partner’s head..
This leaves your partner’s hands free to reach and hold the vibrator on your clitoris, or to allow you to hold the vibrator against your clitoris without the difficulty of squeezing your hand between your moving bodies..
3. Or get one that you can wear.
4. Incorporate it orally.
Place a vibrator on your cheek when giving oral sex. This will transfer some of that buzzing sensation to your partner’s penis. Or, if that feels too weird, apply it to his testicles, perineum, and anus for extra stimulation.
They will love it.
5. Use it to play with nipples.
Vibrators are not just for the genitals!
If you’re into nipple play, you’ll definitely enjoy using a vibrator there too. Try it on your partner or have them try it on you for some extra stimulating nipple play during sex.