Ever since people started playing with their clams and swinging around with their dicks out in the air – as the case may be – there have been a whole host of misconceptions surrounding masturbationFortunately, most of the misconceptions about self-pleasure (no, it won’t make you sterile, yes, women like it too, and no, it won’t kill the kittens) have been largely debunked over the years.
That being said, even though we are now advanced in our understanding of solo, non-procreative pleasure, myths about masturbation remain pervasive, particularly in the anatomical realm.
Here we present 4 common misconceptions about masturbation to set the record straight (or curvy), once and for all.
1. The clitoris is a pretty little button
NOW, While there is no doubt that the clitoris is indeed adorable to look at, and does indeed appear as a sort of “little button”, when it comes to your clitoris, there is so much to discover. more than meets the eye. Fact: The clitoris extends far beyond the nub perched atop your vulva: There’s a whole internal part of your clitoris that includes bulbous internal extensions and these sort of wings or branches on both sides—it looks a bit like a wishbone. Really, the entire clitoris can reach up to 5.1 inches (the average size of your erect penis).
Not only can the internal branches of your clitoris potentially be stimulated from the outside, rub/press your visible “button” or massage your labia, but the clitoris can Also enjoy indirect internal stimulation through penetration (hint: the famous The G-spot is part of your clitoral network!). In short: it is all connected, and it is all GOOD: the hierarchy of orgasm East not a thing.
2. The type of orgasm is defined by the area you stimulate
While some people Today we will challenge that there is at least 7 Different Types of Stimulation That Can Lead to Orgasm (clitoralvaginal, blend, G pointAnd anal are just the tip of the iceberg!), we talk much less about reality types of orgasm. In other words: actual ways to classify orgasms that aren’t based on anatomy. Well, don’t worry, because a recent study confirmed that there are actually three types of orgasms, which can be classified as “wave,” “volcano,” and “avalanche.” Elementary, some might say.
A wave orgasm occurs when waves of tension and release rise and fall through the pelvic muscles (the most common type). An avalanche orgasm occurs when the pelvic floor experiences high, abrupt tension that then falls during orgasm (the second most common type). Finally, a volcanic orgasm occurs when the pelvic floor maintains a low, steady voltage before “erupting” at the end (the least common type). Now that you know, you know. Often, knowing is feelingafter all.
3. G-spot stimulation is quite simple
We live in an age where discussing how to find your g-spot is becoming the norm, and that’s a cause for celebration. Many people now understand that the G-spot can be stimulated by an internal tickling motion with the fingers, G-spot vibrationsand even externally, through clitoral stimulation. In fact, as mentioned earlier, when you stimulate the G-spot, you stimulate a part of the clitoris, which is much larger than previously thought. That being said, far fewer people understand that it is also possible to provide additional G-spot stimulation via Kegel exercises or even pressing on your belly!
For G-spot stimulation with Kegel exercises, pay attention to the sensations you feel when you contract your muscles. This may be easier with Kegel balls or an insertable toy, as it can be easier to identify the feeling of tightening around a solid object. Each time you squeeze, you can feel a slight rumble radiating from your vagina to your clitoris, and with each squeeze, your Kegel balls will gently rock against your G-spot. A divine way to strengthen both your pelvic floor and go down on a whole other level, you say? And then there is The Viral Above-the-Waist G-Spot Technique on TikTok:when you put pressure on your lower abdomen above your pubic bone, pushing on your bladder, you are also pushing on your G-spot just below. Just as internal pressure on this area can intensify pleasure, external pressure can do the same. You can try stimulating your G-spot from the outside And inside while simultaneously inserting a finger or toy.
4. The main goal of Kegel exercises is to tighten your vagina
When Kegel exercises were first popularized, they gained attention for their ability to “tighten” the vagina and possibly intensify orgasms. major misconceptionof course, since “tightening” the vaginal muscles is possible, even desirable. In reality, Kegel exercises focus on the pelvic muscles that surround the vagina rather than the vaginal muscles themselves, and on reinforcement rather than tightening. Although you can perform Kegel exercises 100% discreetly without any accessories, using Kegel balls can make things easier.
Why incorporate Kegel exercises into your masturbation routine, you ask? For one thing, it feels good and can stimulate your G-spot, and if you wear Kegel ballsJust inserting them can be arousing. With better blood flow and a greater ability to contract and relax your muscles, stronger and easier orgasms are also possible. It is precisely this better control of your muscles that creates a “tightening” sensation during sex. Better control also comes with better bladder control, faster vaginal recovery after pregnancy, and more.generally vaginal rejuvenation, increased natural lubricationand prevention of vaginal prolapseTip: Do Kegel exercises before or during orgasm and you may start to notice a change in your orgasm experience.
Bottom line: chances are, when it comes to the anatomy of (personal) pleasure, there’s always something more to learn. Pretty exciting, right? <3