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For people with vulvas, there are many ways to achieve true orgasm. One of the most popular Big O’s comes from clitoral stimulation, because, well, the clitoris is a super-sensitive area that’s completely charged with sexual energy (aka thousands of nerves concentrated in that intense spot).
As sex educator and relationship coach Dawn Serra previously told SheKnows, the clitoris is a “giant network of swollen, tingling pleasure.” It’s larger than you think (it actually looks more like a quadruped than a single “spot”), capable of erecting on its own (similar to a penis), and the way it receives and responds to pleasure varies. evolve over time. While you may have figured out how to deal with your own clitoris (or coached some partners on the dos and don’ts), it’s completely normal for your clitoris to take some time to become fully aroused. “Keep in mind that on average, a woman needs 20-25 minutes of stimulation and foreplay to be fully aroused,” says Serra.
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While there are tons of toys on the market—those that cater to penetration, those that are high-tech and fancy, or those that are just unique and a little surprising—sometimes you want to find a toy that’s just right for you. Be really good at one thing. Whether you’re just starting to collect toys or you’re looking for a new MVP toy, we’ve rounded up our favorite toys—toys that mimic the mouth (all the way down to the tongue) and toys that vibrate in low- and high-key ways—that target the clitoris. Try some of these and you’ll be improving your literacy in no time.
A version of this story was published in April 2020.
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A rose clitoral stimulator
The One Rose Clitoral Stimulator really ticks all the boxes – don’t let its cute looks fool you. The One Rose is small enough to fit in the palm of your hand, but still delivers ultra-powerful pressure wave technology that makes you feel like the air is sucking into your clitoris (or nipples!). Yes, really. This soft, sexy toy features three different speed settings and seven different modes to play with, yet is still subtle enough to sit nicely on your nightstand without causing anyone to blink an eye.
A rose clitoral stimulator$40
Sohimi ALFA suck vibrator thrust dildo plug
Sometimes you really need the best of both worlds. This sweet dual stimulation toy from Sohimi offers clitoral suction and vibration options as well as G-spot vibration and thrust, with nine stimulation speeds. Made from medical-grade silicone, it’s comfortable to use, waterproof, and easy to clean and recharge, making it an ultra-reliable bedside friend.
Sohimi ALFA Sucking Vibrator$52.99
TODAY It 2 Cruise
Another sucking clitoral stimulator, the Sona is shaped perfectly for the hand, allowing those who don’t like strong vibrations or penetration to have wild fun.
Sona 2 cruise ship$98.80
on amazon.com
Erotic Starlet 3
Womanizer’s toys provide a unique sucking sensation that mimics the mouth in a different, tongue-free way. Quiet, well-sized and easy to clean, the Starlet is a great and affordable model for adventurous attempts.
Erotic Starlet 3$79
on amazon.com
Enigma cruise ship
Flexible and super smooth, LELO’s Enigma Cruise uses sonic waves to stimulate your clitoris, which means it doesn’t even have to touch your skin to make you see stars – but it can also provide a penetrating G-spot when you want depth. Stimulating, full feeling.
LELO Enigma cruise ship$164.37 $219.00 25% discount
on amazon.com
The wand is petite
This small but mighty toy is a travel-friendly wand (a great versatile toy for any collection) that’s comfortable and easy to use.
give me the ending
A finger vibrator is a small but powerful toy that enhances the power of the toys you already have, making it perfect for hands-on play. You can’t go wrong with the Dame Fin, it’s easy to hold and packs a punch in its small size.
give me the ending$53.95 $65.00 17% discount
on amazon.com
imitation plus
The Mimic Plus uses deeper, rumbling vibrations to stimulate the clitoris, making it ideal for solo play and play with a partner.
Mimic + PLUS Vibrator$87.98 $85.70
on amazon.com
Eva II
The Eva II is a great, beautiful companion toy that hangs under the labia to provide optimal clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex.
Eva II$139.99
on amazon.com
idabo
LELO’s IDA Wave This waterproof remote-controlled vibrator comes with two motors and 10 different vibration settings, so you’re sure to find a combination that’s right for you.
LELO IDA Wave$132.30 $189.00 30% discount
on amazon.com
Amy Squire 2
The Sqweel 2 may look like a small fan, but it’s more likely to heat you up than cool you down, if you know what we mean. This toy’s rotating silicone tongue and three speeds are completely unlike any other toy you’ve ever played with.
Squire 2$39.99
on amazon.com
mia 2 language
For a low-profile, powerful USB-rechargeable massager, there’s no better choice than the Mia 2. To the untrained eye, it looks like a regular lipstick or a fancy tube of mascara.
mia 2 language$62.30 $61.00
on amazon.com
time
The Volta’s unique shape and tapping, pounding feel provide a unique spin on clitoral stimulation.
time$128.66 $95.19
on amazon.com
pocket rocket
The pocket rocket certainly lives up to its name. This tiny, classic clitoral vibe features a removable cap on the textured head, so you can choose a smooth or bumpy surface to stimulate this sensitive area.
pocket rocket$25.86
on amazon.com
remote controlled clitoral vibrator
Experience some fun power dynamics with this clitoral vibrator, which can be controlled via remote or app – making it perfect for playing with your partner when one of you is away.
remote controlled clitoral vibrator$22.98
on amazon.com