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There are far more kinks and fetishes than just 101, but let’s take a look at a few—for curiosity, for fun… and for science.
Also, understand that this list is a mix of kinks and fetishes (fetishes aren’t necessarily sexual, but people get a certain level of sexual arousal from them).
Ready to roll up your sleeves and get some dirty work?
notes: (E) = Edge games, distortions with increased risk/danger factors
- 1950s Fetish – Role play of the traditional American nuclear family – can be reversed
- 24/7 – A power exchange relationship that operates 24/7
- Kidnapping temptation – Kidnap someone with love
- Adult Baby – Act like a baby, wear diapers and receive care
- alien – Fantasies of having sex with aliens, usually by abduction and coercion
- Amazon – Want to have a relationship with a really strong, authoritative woman
- Amputee – Sexual desire for amputees
- Anal sex – Some people just like butts
- armpit – Getting sexual arousal or pleasure from smelling, licking or kissing the armpits
- Self-sucking – A man is performing oral sex on himself
- Naked Back – Having sex without a condom (Britain)
- Bathroom Control – Decide when you can use the toilet
- Biting – Give me those teeth
Can you guess what fetish “Nyotaimori” is?” yes?
Tip: Food
- Blood suffocation – Causes a person to pass out by restricting blood flow to the brain (E)
- Bloody Game – Sexual arousal from the sight, release, or playing with blood. There are many other subtypes, such as vampires (Britain)
- Body painting – Painting the body, treating the skin as a human canvas
- Bondage – Limit or restrict actions
- brand – Marking the skin with heated objects to form images, words or symbols (Britain)
- Breast or nipple torture – Equivalent to CBT for breast and nipple pain (Britain)
- Breathing Game – Panic by restricting breathing (Britain)
- Caning – Touching someone with a cane
- Cognitive behavioral therapy – Penis and testicle torture – causing pain to the male genitals (Britain)
- chastity – No sex for you
- Having sex with clothes on – Have sex with your clothes on so the fabric is inside you
- Collar – Wear a collar to show you are a submissive. In some BDSM circles, this is as serious as a wedding ring.
- Both parties agree to disagree – Also known as rape (still requires consent)
- Corset/tight lace-up – Changing the body shape through corsets, sometimes including breath play
Want to learn more about corsets? Check this out:
The Corset Guide – Get the Sexy Body You Desire
- Cross-dressing – Wearing clothing of another “gender”
- coward – When a male partner enjoys watching his woman having sex with another man – A form of humiliation
- Cupping – A special round cup is heated to create a vacuum on the skin – commonly used in traditional Chinese medicine
- Lacrimal – Excited by tears/crying
- Double Penetration – One penis is inserted into the vagina and the other into the anus
- Video Games – The “safest” method is to use a TENS device (E)
- Enema – Douching or cleaning the anus or rectum
- Exhibitionism – Enjoy others watching you having sex
- Facial – Oral sex, when a man roughly fucks someone’s mouth
- beard – You like beards and mustaches and so on.
- Fig – Insert peeled fresh ginger slices into the anus
- Playing with Fire – Games involving fire (E)
- Fisting – Use one fist Vaginal or anal penetration
- Whipping – Beat people with a multi-tailed whip
- food Play – Using food during sexual intercourse
- foot Fetish – Start to get excited go through foot
- Enforcement Feeding – Feed someone to gain weight
- Furry Eve – Wearing a furry animal costume is not considered sexual in itself, but if you have sex in the costume, it becomes more than just “furry”
Want to learn about the non-sexual side of furry? Check out these:
What is furry? The truth behind the costume.
- Garters and stockings – Many men get excited when they see women wearing this (now) uncommon underwear
- Ageism – Appeals to people who are much older
- Golden Shower – pee on someone (Britain)
- Pornographic books -Writing on someone’s body
- Shootout – Excitement from using or threatening a firearm (Britain)
- hand Fetish – Well, people like feet, so why not hands?
- Hermaphroditism – Fetishes for people with male and female body parts
- Humanity furniture – Some people like to act like a piece of furniture
- Impact Game – Hitting someone with various objects to produce a “tingling” or “thumping” sensation
- Impregnation – To get someone pregnant, usually from a male perspective (Britain)
- intelligence Fetish – Sexual arousal through intellectually stimulating conversation or debate
- knife Play – Play with knives or sharp objects. This can be sensory role play or “threat” role play (Britain)
- Knismolagnia – Arousal through tickling
- breast-feeding – When you are sexually attracted to a breastfeeding woman (usually while drinking)
- long hair – Attracted by beautiful long hair
- Loud gender – Yes, knowing that others can hear you having sex
- medical Play – Performances or scenes involving the use of medical equipment/tools (Britain)
- Mummification – Completely wrapping a person to restrict movement
- Needle Play – Involves the use or threat of use of a needle (Britain)
- Female Omori – Eat sushi from other people
- Orgasm control – Controlling someone’s orgasm through signals and cues (different from denial
- Orgasm deny – Not allowing someone to orgasm within a certain time
- carnival – Having sex with many people, many times
- Pedophilia – Worship is a sin by violating religious rules
- Play punching – Temporarily pierce the skin for aesthetic or sensory effects (Britain)
- pony Play – Treat someone like a pony (including riding). Can include clothing
- Pregnant Fetish – Usually from men and is considered a hormonal response
- puppy Play – Treat someone like a dog (or pretend to be a dog)
- PVC – Likes to wear PVC clothing
- Queen – Also called facesitting. The woman is on top during oral sex (or just sitting on top without oral sex)
- Rough gender – This includes biting, scratching, power play, etc.
- eraser – Likes to wear rubber clothes
- stool Play – Playing with feces (Britain)
- Feel Play – Use different materials to create different sensations on the skin. For example, silk, burlap, bristles
- Sensory deprivation – Eliminate various senses, e.g. Sight Wear an eye mask, ear plugs, etc.
- gender Toy – People generally enjoy using sex toys, but they may have a particular preference for a particular type of toy (e.g. butt plugs)
- Chai Li – Japanese rope bondage
- sleeping bag Fetish – Sexual arousal from being in an enclosed space. The victim enters a sleeping bag, bag or box, etc.
- Detection – Insertion of a metal rod into the urethra (originally a medical term) (Britain)
- Spanking – Tap That butt
- swing – Married couples consensually having sex with other couples
- Tattoo – Some people like to give, some people like to receive (Britain)
- Send SMS and audio – Audiobooks, information, etc.
- trample – Under someone’s foot/shoe. May be related to foot fetish, but not necessarily
- Transformation – A fetish that involves changing a person into another person, object, or creature – Popular in Japanese adult anime
- uniform Fetish – It’s simple, uniforms turn you on
- vacuum bed – A device made of two sheets of latex, with air sucked out and the person inside breathing through a tube. A form of sensory deprivation (Britain)
- vampire – Playing the role of a vampire (or a vampire victim). This can (but does not have to) include gore.
- Voyeurism – Watching other people having sex
- water sports – Playing with urine (Britain)
- wax Play – Play with dripping hot wax on your skin
- Werewolf Play – Same gameplay as vampires, but with werewolves
- wrestling – Fighting with physical contact and force control
- Advocacy of foreignness – Have a strong attraction to other people culture or stranger
- Yaoi – The fetishization of male-male sex in anime, manga, or fan fiction. It is aimed at female audiences, not gay men (Bara)
- All Thailand – Obsessed with wearing lycra tights
Which of the following makes you excited? Feel free to share in the comments!