101 Weird Things – An exhaustive list of kinks and fetishes
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There are far more kinks and fetishes than just 101, but let’s take a look at a few—for curiosity, for fun… and for science.
Also, understand that this list is a mix of kinks and fetishes (fetishes aren’t necessarily sexual, but people get a certain level of sexual arousal from them).
Ready to roll up your sleeves and get some dirty work?
notes: (E) = Edge games, distortions with increased risk/danger factors
- 1950s Fetish – Role play of the traditional American nuclear family – can be reversed
- 24/7 – A power exchange relationship that operates 24/7
- Kidnapping temptation – Kidnap someone with love
- Adult Baby – Act like a baby, wear diapers and receive care
- alien – Fantasies of having sex with aliens, usually by abduction and coercion
- Amazon – Want to have a relationship with a really strong, authoritative woman
- Amputee – Sexual desire for amputees
- Anal sex – Some people just like butts
- armpit – Getting sexual arousal or pleasure from smelling, licking or kissing the armpits
- Self-sucking – A man is performing oral sex on himself
- Naked Back – Having sex without a condom (Britain)
- Bathroom Control – Decide when you can use the toilet
- Biting – Give me those teeth
Can you guess what fetish “Nyotaimori” is?” yes?
Tip: Food
- Blood suffocation – Causes a person to pass out by restricting blood flow to the brain (E)
- Bloody Game – Sexual arousal from the sight, release, or playing with blood. There are many other subtypes, such as vampires (Britain)
- Body painting – Painting the body, treating the skin as a human canvas
- Bondage – Limit or restrict actions
- brand – Marking the skin with heated objects to form images, words or symbols (Britain)
- Breast or nipple torture – Equivalent to CBT for breast and nipple pain (Britain)
- Breathing Game – Panic by restricting breathing (Britain)
- Caning – Touching someone with a cane
- Cognitive behavioral therapy – Penis and testicle torture – causing pain to the male genitals (Britain)
- chastity – No sex for you
- Having sex with clothes on – Have sex with your clothes on so the fabric is inside you
- Collar – Wear a collar to show you are a submissive. In some BDSM circles, this is as serious as a wedding ring.
- Both parties agree to disagree – Also known as rape (still requires consent)
- Corset/tight lace-up – Changing the body shape through corsets, sometimes including breath play
Want to learn more about corsets? Check this out:
The Corset Guide – Get the Sexy Body You Desire
- Cross-dressing – Wearing clothing of another “gender”
- coward – When a male partner enjoys watching his woman having sex with another man – A form of humiliation
- Cupping – A special round cup is heated to create a vacuum on the skin – commonly used in traditional Chinese medicine
- Lacrimal – Excited by tears/crying
- Double Penetration – One penis is inserted into the vagina and the other into the anus
- Video Games – The “safest” method is to use a TENS device (E)
- Enema – Douching or cleaning the anus or rectum
- Exhibitionism – Enjoy others watching you having sex
- Facial – Oral sex, when a man roughly fucks someone’s mouth
- beard – You like beards and mustaches and so on.
- Fig – Insert peeled fresh ginger slices into the anus
- Playing with Fire – Games involving fire (E)
- Fisting – Use one fist Vaginal or anal penetration
- Whipping – Beat people with a multi-tailed whip
- food Play – Using food during sexual intercourse
- foot Fetish – Start to get excited go through foot
- Enforcement Feeding – Feed someone to gain weight
- Furry Eve – Wearing a furry animal costume is not considered sexual in itself, but if you have sex in the costume, it becomes more than just “furry”

Want to learn about the non-sexual side of furry? Check out these:
What is furry? The truth behind the costume.
- Garters and stockings – Many men get excited when they see women wearing this (now) uncommon underwear
- Ageism – Appeals to people who are much older
- Golden Shower – pee on someone (Britain)
- Pornographic books -Writing on someone’s body
- Shootout – Excitement from using or threatening a firearm (Britain)
- hand Fetish – Well, people like feet, so why not hands?
- Hermaphroditism – Fetishes for people with male and female body parts
- Humanity furniture – Some people like to act like a piece of furniture
- Impact Game – Hitting someone with various objects to produce a “tingling” or “thumping” sensation
- Impregnation – To get someone pregnant, usually from a male perspective (Britain)
- intelligence Fetish – Sexual arousal through intellectually stimulating conversation or debate
- knife Play – Play with knives or sharp objects. This can be sensory role play or “threat” role play (Britain)
- Knismolagnia – Arousal through tickling
- breast-feeding – When you are sexually attracted to a breastfeeding woman (usually while drinking)
- long hair – Attracted by beautiful long hair
- Loud gender – Yes, knowing that others can hear you having sex
- medical Play – Performances or scenes involving the use of medical equipment/tools (Britain)
- Mummification – Completely wrapping a person to restrict movement

- Needle Play – Involves the use or threat of use of a needle (Britain)
- Female Omori – Eat sushi from other people
- Orgasm control – Controlling someone’s orgasm through signals and cues (different from denial
- Orgasm deny – Not allowing someone to orgasm within a certain time
- carnival – Having sex with many people, many times
- Pedophilia – Worship is a sin by violating religious rules
- Play punching – Temporarily pierce the skin for aesthetic or sensory effects (Britain)
- pony Play – Treat someone like a pony (including riding). Can include clothing
- Pregnant Fetish – Usually from men and is considered a hormonal response
- puppy Play – Treat someone like a dog (or pretend to be a dog)
- PVC – Likes to wear PVC clothing
- Queen – Also called facesitting. The woman is on top during oral sex (or just sitting on top without oral sex)
- Rough gender – This includes biting, scratching, power play, etc.
- eraser – Likes to wear rubber clothes
- stool Play – Playing with feces (Britain)
- Feel Play – Use different materials to create different sensations on the skin. For example, silk, burlap, bristles
- Sensory deprivation – Eliminate various senses, e.g. Sight Wear an eye mask, ear plugs, etc.
- gender Toy – People generally enjoy using sex toys, but they may have a particular preference for a particular type of toy (e.g. butt plugs)
- Chai Li – Japanese rope bondage
- sleeping bag Fetish – Sexual arousal from being in an enclosed space. The victim enters a sleeping bag, bag or box, etc.
- Detection – Insertion of a metal rod into the urethra (originally a medical term) (Britain)
- Spanking – Tap That butt
- swing – Married couples consensually having sex with other couples
- Tattoo – Some people like to give, some people like to receive (Britain)
- Send SMS and audio – Audiobooks, information, etc.
- trample – Under someone’s foot/shoe. May be related to foot fetish, but not necessarily
- Transformation – A fetish that involves changing a person into another person, object, or creature – Popular in Japanese adult anime
- uniform Fetish – It’s simple, uniforms turn you on
- vacuum bed – A device made of two sheets of latex, with air sucked out and the person inside breathing through a tube. A form of sensory deprivation (Britain)
- vampire – Playing the role of a vampire (or a vampire victim). This can (but does not have to) include gore.
- Voyeurism – Watching other people having sex
- water sports – Playing with urine (Britain)
- wax Play – Play with dripping hot wax on your skin
- Werewolf Play – Same gameplay as vampires, but with werewolves
- wrestling – Fighting with physical contact and force control
- Advocacy of foreignness – Have a strong attraction to other people culture or stranger
- Yaoi – The fetishization of male-male sex in anime, manga, or fan fiction. It is aimed at female audiences, not gay men (Bara)
- All Thailand – Obsessed with wearing lycra tights
Which of the following makes you excited? Feel free to share in the comments!

Anal Beads
Anal Vibrators
Butt Plugs
Prostate Massagers
Alien Dildos
Realistic Dildos
Kegel Exercisers & Balls
Classic Vibrating Eggs
Remote Vibrating Eggs
Vibrating Bullets
Bullet Vibrators
Classic Vibrators
Clitoral Vibrators
G-Spot Vibrators
Massage Wand Vibrators
Rabbit Vibrators
Remote Vibrators
Pocket Stroker & Pussy Masturbators
Vibrating Masturbators
Cock Rings
Penis Pumps
Wearable Vibrators
Blindfolds, Masks & Gags
Bondage Kits
Bondage Wear & Fetish Clothing
Restraints & Handcuffs
Sex Swings
Ticklers, Paddles & Whips