10 Tips on How to Have Great Skype Sex – A Beginner’s Guide

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Skype sex isn’t for everyone. Depending on your preferences and personality, it can be either very exciting or very awkward. So if you’ve landed on this page, I’m guessing you’re at least interested in giving it a try.

First, it’s important to realize that Skype sex can be many things.. possible…

• Phone Sex With Visual Effects
• One person masturbates while another watches
• Mutual masturbation
• One-way interaction with sex toys
• Use remote-controlled sex toys for two-way interactive sex

Just like normal sexual intercourse, There is no right or wrong choice.

It’s best to start slow and experiment first, repeating the things you like and ignoring the rest. Most importantly, don’t let your partner pressure you into doing something you don’t want to do. It’s good to try to accommodate your partner’s needs, but they should also be understanding and patient.

5 Practical Tips for Having Sex on Skype

• Check the camera. Make sure the angle, level, and distance are right so your partner can see the full extent of your sexiness. This is easier to do with an external webcam, but if it’s built-in, do your best.
• Flip the switch. If you like dark and grainy, that’s cool. However, most people want to see as much detail as possible. And if possible, have at least some decent lighting in the room.
• Press Play. If you like music, have a playlist or two ready – it will help you get in the zone.
• Add a little more. Extra visual stimulation is always helpful. Try sexy clothing or layers so you can undress.
• Be more confident. Don’t worry about whether you look good or not. Know that you look good. Confidence is the sexiest thing.

Option 1 – Skype Sex

Phone sex is talking dirty to your partner over the phone. (Ugh)

While you can use a regular phone to make calls, Skype also offers a voice option that can save you long-distance charges. It’s also ideal if someone is too nervous to get on camera right away.

what can you do?

Talk about your fantasies, role play, talk about what you’re doing at the moment, share what you’d like your partner to do to you, tell them what they do that makes you happy, or play naughty games (with sexy rewards or punishments).

Biggest advice?

Build tension. You can do this by pacing yourself – prolonging the pleasure and building up to a true climax slowly. Teasing helps a lot.

Option 2 – One-way masturbation

If one partner is shy and the other likes to expose their body, you can try this method.

Non-masturbators can watch passively or take a more active role by saying dirty things. You can also control the action and give instructions. You also have the option of using a variety of sex toys and accessories if that’s your thing. Things like vibrators, masturbators, nipple clamps, wands, etc. Have fun!

Option 3 – Mutual Masturbation

If both parties are willing to be on camera, even better. Just take all the methods we mentioned before and use them while both parties are pleasuring themselves. You can also play the “we climax at the same time” game.

Option 4 – Use a “smart” sex toy for Skype sex

Remote sex toys, also known as Teledildonics, are devices that can be controlled via Bluetooth or a custom app. Since Bluetooth isn’t really an option with Skype, you’ll be limited to the app functionality.

There aren’t many companies that offer such products, mainly because they are too complex and expensive. As of this writing, the main players include LovinsWe-Vibe, Kiiroo and Vibease.

Meet MAX and NORA – the perfect Skype sex match

It’s as simple as pairing the toy with the app and handing control over to your partner, letting them experiment with vibration intensity, patterns, and even syncing to music.

Fair warning: Because of the technical nature of these toys, they won’t be cheap. So be prepared.

Option 5 – Interactive Sex Toys

The same principle (and often companies) also make app-controlled toys With the ability to operate at a distance… yet impact each other.

that’s right.

The controlled toy will react no matter how the main toy moves. So if he thrusts with this masturbator, the female vibrator should buzz – and the faster they move, the stronger the other toy will react. You can also switch it up so that the female toy makes the male toy react.

Isn’t that great?

It’s a great solution for those who have to spend some time apart but want to be intimate with each other in a way that regular screen masturbation can’t. Currently, there are only two main competitors – Max or Calor + Nora from Lovense and Onyx/Pearl from Kiiroo

Whatever you choose, remember to have fun! Sex, whether in real life or on Skype, should be pleasurable.

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