10 Reasons You Should Start Slow Sex Right Now

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“The contrast between fast sex and slow sex is like contrasting fast food and a seven-course gourmet meal.”

That’s the best analogy I’ve ever heard. And it’s true.

It’s fun to carve out time in our busy schedules for some quick sex and pillow play, but incorporating some slow practices has its benefits, too.

1. You’ll have more orgasms

Rough and/or quick orgasms can make you uncomfortable and feel compelled to stop as soon as possible. You can enjoy more by taking your time. This includes reducing the gap in the time it takes for men and women to orgasm.

• Women take an average of 13 minutes longer to orgasm
• 74% of men can orgasm
• 30% of women always orgasm

2. Orgasms will be more intense

It’s all about buildup. The more time you spend getting your body excited, the better the rewards for both parties. Your brain is your largest sex organ.

3. You must live in the present moment

The key to slow sex is to slow everything down, including foreplay. You need to focus on their reactions instead of rushing to the finish line.

4. Communication will improve

In addition to focusing on the present moment, you will also have more time to communicate what you like, what you don’t like, what you want, etc.

Don’t be afraid to tell them what you want.

5. Get to know your partner better

A slow and steady pace, longer foreplay, and communication will give you a better road map to understanding your partner, their body, and their mind.

6. Increase diversity

Busy lives often leave us with only time for quick sex. Slow sex adds a new element to the bedroom – spice (a common complaint among couples who have been together for a long time).

7. Closer, more connected

All the things we have mentioned so far will definitely make your relationship with your loved one closer.

8. Overall stress reduction

Sex gives us all sorts of happy chemicals, so if we have more and stronger orgasms, we’re more likely to feel more relaxed and even argue less (including having a stronger connection and intimacy).

9. Desire for more sex

Having sex makes you want more sex, so it may be the solution to any sexual craving.

10. Men have more orgasms

Slow sex can increase the chances of having multiple ejaculatory orgasms (in a male + male relationship) without having to wait to recover.

There are more good things than bad things, if you know what I mean.

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1. Find a good job
2. Get rid of distractions
3. Slow down on foreplay
4. Explore areas of your body you would normally ignore
5. Add mood lighting or music
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What other benefits do you think slow sex has? Share them in the comments!