Yoni Massage 101 | Aldult Toys Blog

Fortunately, we live in a time where more and more women are looking for new, deeper ways to experience their own pleasure. Even if there is still a long way to go to end the ultra-gender Orgasm And masturbation gapsprogress is relentless, baby.

Enter Yoni massage, aka female genital massage. You heard it here first: although our world is still dominated by erotic massage parlors offering “Rub and pull“services for a strictly male clientele, that’s a change.

What exactly is a Yoni massage?

The history of Yoni massage is closely linked to that of Tantric sex. While Tantra is an ancient Indian tradition of beliefs, meditation, and rituals dating back to the 5th century, tantric sex as we understand it in the Western world is entirely centered on the sexual aspect of these philosophies. “Yoni” is the Sanskrit word for vagina, akin to “sacred portal.”

That you wish Treat yourself to a Yoni massagegift one to your partner and/or visit an erotic massage parlor and get one from a professional, know that Yoni massage aims to prolong arousal and make it better, deeper and sweeter. Although the goal of Yoni massage is not Orgasm is usually understood as a big shiny bonus, because the journey is most definitely the destination in tantric practice.

Preparation for Yoni massage

Whether you’re performing a Yoni massage on your partner or yourself, here are some tips to help you set the stage.

Set the mood. Create a welcoming atmosphere to help your mind and body relax and let go. Light candles and incense or put on some soothing music. Make sure the room is neither too cold nor too hot. Find a comfortable, private place with enough space to move around freely. Finally, make sure you (and your partner, if applicable) have recently showered or bathed and that your nails are trimmed to avoid any unpleasant sensations.

Yoni oil (optional). Many prefer to try the Yoni massage with oil. It is very pleasant, as it allows the hands to glide over the skin with delicious ease, while simultaneously moisturizing and regenerating it. If you use an oil, be careful what you use, because you may also be touching yourself internally. It is always wise to do so a one-time test First. Consider making a Homemade Yoni Oil Use carrier oils like coconut or jojoba oil and add a few drops of your favorite essential oil. You can also use a silicone-based lubricant, which tends to be slippery and long-lasting.

Breathe. Traditional Yoni massage is a spiritual practice. It is therefore essential to take 5 minutes before starting to breathe meditatively and clear your mind. This will help you release mental and physical tension, paving the way for a stronger connection with yourself or your partner.

If you are with a partner, perform the following breathwork face to face and in sync.

– Sit up straight.

– Exhale deeply, focusing your energy on your belly.

– Close your mouth and breathe in gently through your nose.

– Hold your breath for 7 seconds.

– Exhale through your mouth for 8 seconds.

– Repeat 3 more times.

Yoni massage techniques.

You are now ready to give/receive a Yoni massage.

Note: The following instructions are intended for someone experimenting solo, but everything included here applies to couples massage as well.

Tip: Penetration is optional. The focus is on other areas of the vagina, with the goal of increasing blood flow to its myriad nerve endings. If you do engage in penetration, do it very slowly (and always ask for consent if you’re giving a partner the massage, of course).

First, warm up. Most yoni massages include breast and nipple stimulation. Slide your hands around and over your breasts, then down to include your stomach. Caress your hips, thighs, and knees. Intermittently change your level of touch, from light to intense. You may want to pull and pinch your nipples, letting your hands explore.

In a circle. It’s all about creating circles. Start by massaging slowly and gently around your clitoris, drawing the sensation to the area, but not directly. Everyone has different levels of sensitivity, so experiment. Vary the size of the circles you make, starting with large circles further away from your clitoris and then decreasing as you get closer.

Push and pull. This technique is a little more intense. Place one finger on each side of the clitoral hood, using a “push and pull” technique to alternately reveal and hide the tip. If it helps, think of the tip of your clitoris as the tip of a penis.

Pulling and rolling. Place one finger on each side of your clitoris and pull very lightly. Or roll it gently between your fingers. This technique also works for your labia. Simply slide your fingers slowly back and forth along each labia. You can try starting with the outer areas before moving deeper.

Tapping. Using one or more fingers, tap your clitoris. Experiment with different rhythms to see how it feels. If direct tapping is too intense, tap on either side of your clitoris instead.

G-spot massage. If you are ready to venture inside, It is G point time. This ultra-sensitive spongy spot is located on the front wall of your vagina, just a few inches away. Hooking your fingers in is a great way to stimulate your G-spot, but a G-spot toy will do the trick as well. No matter what you use, experiment with the tempo and don’t be afraid to incorporate a simultaneous clitoral massage.

Climax, or not. Orgasm is not the goal of all yoni massages. In some authentic tantric techniques, it is even avoided. I say, do what you feel. The goal here is to put you in deeper contact with your pleasure centers, and this is going to be a little different for everyone.

How to Get a Professional Yoni Massage

If you want to experience a yoni massage without giving your own energy, you have two options: your partner can give you one or you can find a professional practitioner.

It’s true that it’s much easier to hire a professional in larger cities and sex-positive areas, but that’s not always the case. Start by searching for “yoni massage” or “tantric massage” in your city. Be aware that website descriptions may not directly mention “yoni massage” as a service because, depending on where you’re located, it may be considered sex work, which is illegal and/or frowned upon in some places. Keywords like “tantra,” “intimacy,” and “sensual” can give you an idea of ​​what services are actually offered. Be prepared to make a few calls to be sure.

Note that some businesses offering this type of massage focus solely on yoni massage while others offer yoni massage in addition to more traditional massages. Some practitioners are women, some are men, and some are non-binary. If gender matters to you, these are all factors to pay attention to. Always be sure to also check out unbiased reviews (Google or Yelp) to get a better idea of ​​their expertise and the comfort of their space.

This concludes your crash course on Yoni massage! Know that in addition to being a positive divine experience that allows you to get out of your head and immerse yourself in your body, Yoni massage offers much more benefits for body and mindincluding sexual empowerment, self-confidence, and relief of vaginal tension/pain. Regular massage can promote more intense orgasms, and even improve your sex life with others. What’s not to like?

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