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Woman dating someone while boyfriend is waiting

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Talk is an open book.

Although polygamous relationships are not like their once taboos – a couple reveals the dynamics of their open relationships, and people scratch their heads.

Fernanda Fabian revealed that she and her boyfriend Michael reached a deal to allow her to go out and date others while he stayed at home.


The couple figured out what worked for them. Jam press/thorny

The couple reached this exciting setting early in their relationship, and despite the initial jealous feeling, it seemed to work for them.

Although now effective for the duo – in the early stages, Fabin felt intimate about exploring other connections.

“When I started to have feelings for others, I felt like I was doing something wrong,” she told Needtoknow.

“That didn’t affect how I felt about Michael – if anything, I admire him more. Now, I feel introverted only if I feel that I have damaged my relationship with others.”

Fabian said the two of them were satisfied with their openness.


Fernanda Fabian, a woman in a mustard top and floral dress, relaxes on the bench.
“When I started to have feelings for others, I felt like I was doing something wrong,” she told Needtoknow. Jam press/thorny

“He no longer experiences jealousy because he feels safe in our connection.”

Fabian also explained how she made her love and gratitude for her boyfriend.

“I’m still expressing my love and appreciation for him even if he doesn’t ask for it. I always try to put our relationship first.”

The couple does have some boundaries. “Whenever I’m dating now, we don’t talk about it. Unless I’m struggling and need his support,” she told The Outlet.

Although Fabian went out and had fun – Michael wasn’t as passionate as the following suits.

“Part of me I wish he had that experience because I knew how fulfilling it could be, in some ways, even addicted to our relationship,” she said.

“I’m pretty sure I’ll feel jealous, though. But these feelings will eventually be like them,” she said.

The couple isn’t the only one who thinks that cheating with others is a good thing – another duo thinks that being a swinger saved their relationship.

Jem Jones and her partner Daz began playing with the others for five years of a “moral non-marriage” relationship.

“People classify it as cheating and say we are ‘splitting the marriage’,” Jones said.

“People are angry about things they don’t understand. We have a 40s.”

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