Why you are cheated may be your fault.

It’s not you, it’s me.

There are many reasons why some people cheat in a relationship. A relationship coach recently pointed out a coveted reason that could cause many to reevaluate their role in romantic relationships.

In a recent interview with Jay Shetty’s “deliberate” podcast, Sadia Khan said it could be the person being deceived because they didn’t pay attention to specific signs because they didn’t pay attention to infidelity in the relationship.

Before you fear this suggestion – Khan did make a valid point.

As the saying goes, action is better than eloquence. Experts remind listeners that it is crucial to pay attention to someone’s behavior – because red flags often reveal themselves early.

“People don’t usually lie. They may lie, but from day one, they will show you their red flags,” Khan told Shetty.

“…It may be when you first meet them, you may lie. You will find this person with a deeper lie.”

Often, people in relationships know another person better than they know – Khan says that if you suspect your infidelity to others, keep that in mind.

“If you keep an eye on your partner, it’s hard for them to live the whole dual life without you,” she explained.

Another popular view of Khan is that men are often deceived because the women they date or marry have loosened their rope too much.

“So whenever a man who was cheated came to me, he would tell me, ‘I never stopped her from doing anything. I allowed her to go on vacation whenever she wanted, I allowed her to come home when she wanted, she could post anything on Instagram, but she still cheated on me!” She explained: “I said to them, ‘du! ‘.

Another unexpected way you can catch your partner in the ACT is to focus on random, innocent emojis, which could be a dead giveaway for their cheating.

Croissants or padlock emojis seem harmless, but according to Paul Jones, a private investigator of ARF’s private investigator, this could mean something more devastating.

“We have people use croissant emojis to say ‘See me for breakfast’ or alphabetic emojis as subtle “send me free time”” Jones told the Sun.

“Using it once or twice doesn’t make much sense,” he told the media.

“But when you see them chatting with the same person regularly, especially late at night, they start to make a lot of sense.”