Who am I in the kink? Part 2: Submissive Type
At the heart of Kink and/or BDSM is the exchange of power between consent partners through a series of activities and roleplays (also known as scenarios and meetings). BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, domination and surrender, sadism and masochism. There are always two aspects of communication: dominant and obedient. The dominant maintains control in the scene, while the submissive gives up control in the scene.
As previous blogs said, the dominant has many different types of styles or style combinations. Likewise, compliance has many different styles and/or style combinations. In this blog post, we will focus on the submissive aspects of the exchange. Unlike the dominant, there is no way to set honors or call to the Lord. But the name of their style and the kinks they describe give similar insights into their entanglements.
These three submissions: submission, slave, switch
obedience
When describing the submission, all styles belong to: submission, slave and switch. Submission is a person who likes to give up control within the scope of a scene or other designated scene and background. Submissive with safe words/words, as well as hard and soft limits determined by individuals. Hard limits are boundaries that partners won’t cross. Soft limits are something that can be explored later, but not something someone wants to try immediately, or they may never want to try the line. Submission usually does not have the full exchange of power with dominant power, but in some cases it does develop.
slave
In the context of BDSM and Kink, slaves are individuals who prefer to have full control in the scene and scene. This is a completely voluntary exchange, and has nothing to do with issues outside of slavery and beyond BDSM. They are usually a full-scale power exchange relationship in which the DOM controls almost completely all aspects of slave life. Slaves often have no safe words, nor restrictions, or these restrictions are determined by their dominance. Master/slave relationships have extremely high levels of trust and are usually not fully realized. Instead, they usually start with low risk through extensive communication and the goal is to eventually have a fully realized slave dynamic. Slaves usually follow many rules and protocols, which are more important than any other way of submission.
change
Switches are people who like both compliant and dominant. This can look like a lot of different ways, and there is usually no 50/50 distribution even between its compliant and dominance. Switches sometimes carry the dynamics of other switches, but they can also work well in dynamics with compliant or dominant forces. Some people have dynamic scenes, and those scenes are dominant and who keep changing in the scene. Others are a dynamic submission and dominate in other dynamics. Some people can fill a character in the dynamics, which is totally good. There are many types of switches operating within the BDSM range.
Dog, kitten and horse, I
Want their pie and hourly machines
Hour machines and middlemen are submissive people, usually the other half of dad/mom. This is not always the case for all dad/mom’s DOMS, but it’s very typical to look for a caregiver or a dominant player in soft style. Littles and Middles are individuals who enjoy scenes younger than themselves in the headspace. This is also called age play. Age games don’t have to be any particular age, but focus more on the feeling of youth, or a more carefree feeling than the adult headspace. Small children are usually individuals in the headspace between toddlers and around ten years old, while the middleman is a person who enjoys older older teenagers. It is important to note that age play has nothing to do with minors and people participating in the age group are still fully aware that they agree with adults. Individuals who return psychologically to a young mental state are not aware of this fact and are not considered urination because in a child’s mental state they no longer agree to adult activities.
The weird Peter rabbit
There are rope rabbits where there are rigging. The rope rabbit is a person who likes to be tied up as one of the main tangles and usually particularly likes shibari. Shibari is a Japanese rope bondage and is considered a form of restraining art. Personal bondage can be made for a variety of reasons or other reasons. However, usually for rope rabbits, it creates a calm physical space for them to disconnect and let go of what is around them. Many people enter what is called a subspace, which is basically a state of consciousness that can sometimes almost mimic the high caused by drug use. Rope rabbits usually enjoy the physical aspect of being bound by their partner, but also enjoy themselves as a display of art. This is sometimes done in public kink spaces, or even in photos you see later on.
Painful players
People who enjoy physical and/or mental pain are also called masochist. Masochism is the other side of sadism, and it is not uncommon for a person to become a sadist and masochist. Masochism can occur in many different forms and in many extreme levels. For some, light hits are the way they allow their masochism to shine, while for others, they prefer something like needle pricks. Both are real ways to express masochism. There is no certain threshold in terms of the amount of pain considered masochist. Masochism is not limited to physical pain, but can also enjoy mental or emotional pain such as dilemma, humiliation/degeneration and hypnosis. Masochism is usually not the only style of submissiveness, but some people regard masochism as their primary or partial.
Money turns the submarine
hunting
For animals, prey is something hunted, and for those who consider themselves to be prey and experience the original aspect, it can be said to be prey. The original game is the exchange of power and energy between two people. There is a hunting and catching aspect to play in human or animal headspace. Prey is someone who likes to dominate itself by running, hiding or fighting back. But it’s the act of being captured and firmly forced to do what their dom wants, and it’s the exciting part of the prey. The original game is a very primitive and passionate kink that focuses mainly on the energy exchange between people.
Spicy obedience
Those who like to press the dominant button and challenge them are called boys. Similar to prey they like to be placed in their place, and also like to get reactions from their DOM, which makes them claim their dominance over themselves. The energy exchange between the boy and their DOM does not have the same energy exchange as the exchange between prey and hunter. Instead, it does it in an interesting way, usually a way to get their DOM to give them the punishment they enjoy. This is also called a kind of entertainment, which is a punishment for both parties to plan and enjoy. Brat’s Doms aren’t always Brat Tamers, but it’s important to always get consent from your partner until it involves proficient behavior. Some leaders simply do not tolerate this type of game and are therefore not suitable for submissive people who like to raise.
Explore and understand your entanglements
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