What is the best toy to break your hymen?

I’m a virgin, older, no particular reason but I’ve gotten to the point where I feel really embarrassed if they don’t go in when I have sex so I want to be comfortable using toys until then. I use vibrators and I had a rabbit a few years ago and I could get it in and I thought yeah that was fixed but I recently bought a “realistic” dildo and it wouldn’t go in and I remembered the rabbit I had a few years ago so tried to order it but didn’t have that model so ordered another one and it was bigger than the one I had before and it didn’t fit 😅 I looked with my fingers and I could get three in 1cm or 2cm into my vagina and it was like a tight band I don’t know how to describe so I guess that’s my hymen and it’s not broken… Any tips and suggestions?

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