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If you haven’t been following Broad City Chicks or aren’t into porn, then you might not know that pegging is a huge trend right now.
Strap-on sex is usually when a female-identifying person uses a strap-on dildo to penetrate a male-identifying person’s anus, although people of any gender may refer to the act of penetrating a receptive partner with a strap-on dildo as strap-on sex. I like this trend because it means straight guys are getting away from the idea that anything near their butt makes them gay.
It’s wonderful that people are comfortable with their bodies and allowing themselves to enjoy them!
Why it feels good to be fixed
Welcome to the fastest anatomy lesson ever! Just like women have a G-spot, men also have a “P-spot,” and guess where it is? What? It’s in the butt!
The prostate gland, located about two inches inside the front wall of the anus, is responsible for making semen sticky and extremely pleasurable. Prostate stimulation may even be referred to as “milking” the prostate gland.
How to Win a Man’s Heart (or a Receptive Man of Any Gender)
The most common is dildo penetration with strap-ons and dildos, but it can also be done with anal toys – with or without a harness. I have a harness with a realistic (but thin) dildo.
Make sure to take all the typical warm-up steps for the best anal sex experience. Make sure your partner is ready and don’t insert a dildo as the first thing you insert! Let your partner use the bathroom and maybe even use an enema or anal douche – this is important! It will make them more comfortable and may save you some messy cleanup.
When you’re ready to start play, start with one finger, then two, and finally a toy. Be sure to use plenty of lube, and when your partner is ready, apply more lube to the dildo and to them. Stand behind your partner and have them bend over and spread their hips. Use your hands (even if you have a harness) to slowly but steadily guide the dildo into their ass. Let them breathe deeply — especially if this is a new sensation for them. Ask them what they want, and when they tell you, give them more/deeper/faster.
My Honest Review of Pegging
My partner really enjoys being tied up and it is always satisfying to make your partner happy. I would absolutely try bondage again, even if it was just for their pleasure.
From my personal experience, I think preparation is key. Make sure your partner has taken care of themselves before you start diving, as this can make the activity more of a letdown than if everything was clean and tidy.
I also recommend that you have some insertable dildos or butt plugs – unlike a real penis, there is no direct pleasure when inserted.
It was definitely a little hard to learn as someone who doesn’t have a penis, and therefore doesn’t know how to control it. Even with the right harness, maneuvering and getting in and out takes some practice, but that’s part of the fun!
