What are the care arrangements for newlyweds?

Getting married and having children is a milestone that everyone must take. Whether a marriage is happy or not is related to the physical and mental health of both men and women as well as the healthy growth of the next generation. Marital health care is therefore very important.

Newlyweds should pay attention to four health points:

1. Premarital examination

Before marriage registration, an objective, scientific and comprehensive examination must be carried out.

The premarital examination generally includes three aspects:

Medical History Survey:

In addition to asking questions about me, my past health and any illnesses I have suffered from, emphasis is placed on the existence of genetic diseases, mental illnesses and blood ties between the two parties, as well as the woman’s menstrual history.

Physical examination:

General examination of the body, including developmental, mental, speech and behavioral abnormalities, and whether there are significant diseases of the heart, lungs, liver and kidneys, including infectious diseases. Examination of the reproductive organs, including whether the development of the reproductive organs is normal and whether there are congenital diseases.

Laboratory tests:

Including hematuria examination, cardiopulmonary fluoroscopy, liver function, Australian anti-gonorrhea syphilis examination and premarital examination. It is an important measure to realize eugenics. medical history, family history investigation and physical examination, genetic diseases and genetic defects can be found, and based on the test results, counseling and deterrent measures can be provided according to different situations, such as being allowed to marry, suspended from marriage, allowed to marry but prohibited from having children, etc.

2. Orientation on sexual life

Sexual life is an important part of family life after marriage. A healthy and harmonious sexual life will bring happiness to the family, otherwise it may cause confusion in the family. In the past, due to the constraints of ancient ethics, people kept sexual matters secret. When getting married, due to lack of knowledge in this area or incomplete or incorrect understanding, the normal sexual life of the couple will often be affected after marriage. First, we must realize that the sexual life between men and women is equal, and the sexual requirements of the husband or wife are equal; second, the harmony and happiness of sexual life require sincere cultivation and patient waiting. Even if there are problems in sexual life, we must know how to handle them properly. We should not rush and blame each other. If necessary, we can find a doctor to guide you.

After marriage, you will have a strong sexual desire and urgent demands on sex life, so you should pay attention to moderation. Generally, healthy young men and women can have sex three to four times a week at the beginning of marriage. This should be determined according to each person’s situation, and it should be appropriate so as not to affect the next day’s work and study. . Clean your vulva before and after each intercourse to prevent inflammation of the reproductive tract and urinary system infections. It is forbidden to have sex during menstruation, which will not only cause inflammation of the reproductive tract, but also increase menstrual flow due to pelvic congestion. Therefore, it should be avoided during the marriage period.

3. Pre-marital family planning advice

Before marriage, both men and women should learn some physiological knowledge about pregnancy and childbirth. Newlyweds are generally younger. Due to study, work, economic and other reasons, they are often reluctant to get pregnant immediately after marriage. Since the hymen is damaged during the marriage period, and the central nervous system is highly excitable during the marriage period, which will have an impact on future pregnancies, it is recommended to choose short-term oral contraceptives or pills for family visits in the first month. , and then use male condoms later, which are generally not suitable for intrauterine devices, long-term oral contraceptives, long-term contraceptive injections, and safe contraception. The failure rate of various external drugs, ointments, suppositories, etc. is also high, and most of these drugs are spermicides. If they fail, it is best to terminate the pregnancy.

4. Age of marriage

The age of marriage should not be too early. If the body is not fully developed, it will affect its own development. Premature childbirth is not good for the mother and child, and also seriously affects work and study. The age of marriage is about 25 years old for men and 23 years old for women. The ancients have known this for a long time. For example, the “Suicide Note of the Chu Family” says: “A man who is competent at sixteen will be married at thirty, and a woman who is fourteen days old will be married at twenty. If they both want the complete blend of yin and yang, they will become pregnant, conceive, and give birth to children.