Unique Struggles You Can Experience

overcoming sexual struggles

As an able-bodied person who walks, talks, and lives freely, I feel privileged to have a fulfilling and relaxing sex life. Recently, I embarked on a three-month journey of celibacy and I feel truly grateful for everything my body has provided me in my sex life. For many people, overcoming sexual struggles can be a very difficult thing.

How often do we take our ability to receive and give joy for granted?

Continued from Part 1: No sex or self-pleasure for three months!

I am grateful because I know that not everyone has the ability to feel the joy and sexual satisfaction that I do. This journey really made me think about those who are unable to express their sexual orientation easily due to a disability or health condition.

I felt there was a need to do some research on different people who struggle with sexual expression to bring awareness to the lives of others. By better understanding the challenges faced by others, we can truly understand our sexual gifts.

persistent genital arousal disorder

I love orgasms. There are many people doing this. I love the excitement that leads to orgasm and the post-coital ecstasy. I love orgasming so much, several times a day is like a dream to me. Many people spend a lot of energy trying to have more orgasms in their lives, and the female orgasm is even an elusive mystery to many. This may be hard to believe if you love them as much as I do, but for some people, orgasms are a living nightmare.

Persistent genital sexual arousal disorder is a debilitating disorder in which patients are in a state of heightened arousal for long periods of time throughout their lives. PGAD primarily affects women, with only 2 cases reported in men (this is associated with restless legs syndrome). Arousal is uncontrollable, no stimulus causes it. The degree of symptoms varies for everyone with the condition, and some women experience hundreds of orgasms on any given day.

Some women with PGAD liken this state to being on the edge of orgasm for an extended period of time without a sense of satisfaction or relief. If you’ve ever been frustrated by being close to orgasm over and over again, you can imagine these women being in an excruciating state all day long. PGAD is definitely not pleasant or pleasant, in fact it is quite It is painful for women with this sexual dysfunction.

physical disability

I recently met a man who works as an escort. He shared with me the story of a client who had never had sex or self-pleasure in her life due to a physical disability. Although she is in her early 40s, she has never had close interaction with anyone, and her disability means she has difficulty using her hands and opening her legs. Being intimate with a man has been something she’s dreamed of since she was a teenager, and because my friends, she got her wish.

Until hearing this story, I had some understanding of disabled people who have extreme difficulties with sex, but it was completely disconnected from my reality. I burst into tears when I heard what her reality was like and how something as simple as self-pleasure for me that I took for granted was not possible for her.

Contrary to the absurd myth that acknowledges that people with disabilities are asexual, this group is just like everyone else and craves connection, sexual exploration, and intimacy just like the rest of us. To deprive them of this right is cruel and unjust. There are even Sex furniture for sale in sex toy stores Helping people with disabilities during sex.

sexual trauma

In my previous life as a registered nurse, I worked in an inpatient psychiatric unit where I would hear story after story about people’s hardship and pain. What really surprised me (in a disturbing way) was the level of sexual abuse and trauma that many people experienced. I’m not surprised when so many people share their stories of sexual abuse during the #metoo movement, sexual trauma greatly affects a person’s connection to their sexuality.

The effects of sexual trauma vary from person to person, and difficulties in forming healthy relationships, low/hypersexuality, dissociative reactions, and boundary challenges are just some of the issues someone with a history of sexual trauma may encounter in their lives. Sexual trauma is debilitating for many people and can lead them to have unhealthy sexual experiences even after the trauma occurs.

My heart goes out to those who, for one reason or another, face extreme challenges in maintaining a healthy connection with their sexuality. May those of us who have the ability to explore our sexuality with ease know that sexuality is not a gift for everyone. Hopefully we can also raise awareness for those who don’t have this ease so they can get the support they need to create a satisfying connection with their sexuality.

10 Frequently Asked Questions About Overcoming Sexual Struggles:

• What are common sexual struggles?
  Common struggles include low libido, performance anxiety, difficulty reaching orgasm, and communication difficulties.
• How can I improve communication with my partner?
  Open, honest conversations about desires and concerns can help build trust and understanding in your relationship.
• Does stress affect sexual performance?
  Yes, stress can have a negative impact on libido, stamina, and overall sexual satisfaction.
• How can therapy help resolve sexual struggles?
  Therapy provides a safe space to address the emotional and psychological factors that impact your sexual health.
• Can lifestyle changes help overcome sexual struggles?
  Yes, improving your diet, exercise, and sleep can boost your energy and sexual well-being.
• Will low self-esteem affect sexual performance?
  Yes, low self-esteem can lead to anxiety and decreased confidence in intimate situations.
• Can medications cause sexual problems?
  Certain medications can affect sexual desire or performance. If you suspect this is the case, talk to your doctor.
• What role does body image play in sexual struggles?
  Negative body image can hinder confidence and pleasure in sexual experiences.
• Can a physical health condition cause sexual struggles?
  Yes, conditions such as diabetes, heart disease, and hormonal imbalances can affect sexual function.
• How to rekindle intimacy after a sexual struggle?
  Patience, communication, and trying new activities together can help rebuild emotional and physical connections.

Continue to Part 3: My journey to celibacy – a reborn virgin

Author: Stephanie Curtis, sexologist

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