Ultimate Guide to Sex Positions: 69 | Aldult Toys Blog

Let’s talk about sex positions.

Whether you’re just starting out with a new partner or looking to spice things up with an old flame, this series of guides is for you.

Next we have the timeless and naughty 69 position.

69:

The 69 sex position, which is old enough to have been featured in the Kamasutra, is indeed a timeless classic. In a nutshell, it’s about two people giving and receiving. oral sex simultaneously.

69 is so named because each person is bent over against the other, face to groin, and they sort of resemble the numbers 6 and 9. For this reason, 69 has a reputation as the funniest number. Never to a certain type of person, while still maintaining its status as a love-it-or-hate-it sex position.

Performing a successful 69, if you will, requires the mindset and coordination to give what you hope is a quality blowjob while experience your partner doing the same for you. It’s easier when both people are the same height, of course. While it doesn’t always work, when it does, 69 can be very intimate: the feeling of giving and receiving at the same time can be a sublime experience of deep connection between two people.

Note on conditions:

When talking about penetration, we use the terms “thrusting partner” for the person with the penis (biological or synthetic) and “receiving partner” for the person accepting the act of penetration (vaginal or anal).

It is important to note that being a receiver is not a passive, submissive role. It is an active, enthusiastic role. There is power in choice, and by choosing to invite their partner into themselves, the receiver exercises that power.

Additionally, the thrusting partner is not just a giver. Of course, he or she also receives pleasure during the act. But for the sake of clarity and consistency, we have selected these terms for both sides of the dynamic.

How to do:

Both partners line up so that their mouths are close to the other person’s genitals. To do this, one partner lies on their back while the other lies on top of them, with their knees straddling their partner’s head. And there you have it: both partners can now perform oral sex on each other! With opposite-sex partners, the woman is usually on top, while the man is on his back. The woman on the bottom is colloquially known as the “reverse 69.”

While doing two things at once isn’t the easiest feat, many have tried it before and wanted to do it again. The key is to find a style that works, where you can both find a position or variation that is physically comfortable, fun, and exciting. All it takes is enthusiasm, curiosity, strong oral muscles, and a resistance to getting too distracted by how amazing it feels, even if your partner is incredibly skilled.

Reasons why we love it:

-Can be an incredibly exciting form of pleasure foreplay before sex

–Improves intimacy due to the desperate proximity between the two partners

-Both partners receive pleasure simultaneously, which is very erotic

-The reverse 69 (woman on bottom, in a heterosexual coupling) is hot if “deep Throat” turn you on

Variations to try:

Side by side 69

In simple terms, rather than positioning themselves on top of each other, both partners lie on their sides, facing the other’s family jewels.

Especially with height differences, this can be much more comfortable. It is also less demanding for the partner who is traditionally on top, as he would otherwise put weight on his knees and at least one elbow, which can be a lot after a while.

The 68

This variation moves things so that only one partner receives pleasure: the receiving partner lies on the back of the thrusting or giving partner. His knees are bent, his legs open, and his buttocks rest on the giving partner’s chest.

This variation is for you if you want to avoid multitasking at all costs. It focuses attention on the receiving partner’s perineum, that small, wild, hyper-sensitive area of ​​skin between the genitals and the anus that is often (if sadly) neglected.

Power 69

The thrusting partner is on top and straddles the receiving partner, dominating the situation and controlling what they get by pressing their genitals into the receiving partner’s mouth – in a heterosexual coupling this might be known as sitting on the faceor a face fuck.

This one is for those who like a little power play. If you are in a male-female couple where the man is much larger, it works best if the man is on top, but in this case the receiving partner must be comfortable with (and indeed, turned on by) fairly deep and possibly rough oral sex.

Squatting 69

Instead of lying on top of each other, they squat on top of each other. In reality, to reach their partner’s genitals, this may seem less like a squat and more like standing with their knees bent and their waists leaning forward until their mouths line up with their partner’s genitals. Meanwhile, the other partner sits down, their face lined up just behind the standing partner.

This variation requires strength in the lower back, glutes, and quads as well as flexibility, but if it works, it’s a super fun variation of the classic 69. The squat variation also allows for some nice opportunities to get your ass slapped.

Law 69

Rather than lying on a flat surface, one partner holds the other partner upside down while they stand.

Unless the standing partner is extremely strong, chances are they won’t have the strength to safely lift their partner. If, on the other hand, one partner is particularly strong and the other is particularly small, this variation can be incredibly exciting: you might feel like porn stars.

The triangle

First of all, this variation of the 69 trio requires bringing, yes, you guessed it: a third person in the mix. Lying on your side with your two partners in a triangle formation, each partner performs oral sex on the next person. In other words, you perform oral sex on one partner and receive oral sex from the other. At. The. Same. Time.

If you and your partner have we discussed it in depth and are both ready and willing to take on whatever group sex implies that it can be very exciting to have a third person involved. The triangle is a particularly interesting threesome position because it includes all parties equally.

Other tips and tricks:

-Realize Orgasm doesn’t have to be the goal to try 69 – this can be purely exploratory, Or a starter for the main course.

-For added comfort, the bottom partner can use a neck pillow for support or a sex corner to raise their buttocks for better access.

-Increase the stimulation factor by use toys! Your partner might press a vibrator against you, or you against them. If it’s a penis you’re facing, try a vibrating penis ring next to your mouth.

-If anyone has a sensitive gag reflexthey can use their hands to relieve pressure on their throat by cuffing the base of the penis.

-If your partner has a vagina, you can lick/suck her clitoris while adding penetration to the equation with your fingers. If your partner likes that, you can finger their anus instead.

-If you particularly like anal and/or prostate gameConsider eating your partner’s booty exclusively. They can do the same with you if the mood is right, before moving on to deeper anal exploration.

– Don’t take 69 too seriously: it’s supposed to be fun… and sexy. Remember: Laughing is 100% allowed!