Types of Handcuffs – A Practical Beginner’s Guide

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Aside from ties or scarves, most geeks (and even veterans) think of handcuffs when they think of bondage. Because of this, you can’t walk five feet without tripping over some kind of novelty gag or wrist restraint like a role-play accessory. Everyone is trying to cash in on this idea in some way.

That would be good.

It can also be terrible.

This is good because there is a lot of variety. But the downside is that some users may buy a pair without understanding the difference and therefore need to take different safety measures.

So here’s a basic layout of the different models you’ll see on the shelves (along with some safety tips).

Chain sleeves

The idea is to limit the wearer’s mobility while providing enough resistance so that they don’t break (under normal circumstances). They also allow the controller to move and manipulate the wearer with simple wrist adjustments and twists. They are suitable for people with muscular bodies whose arms cannot move much behind their backs.

Dangers – These are not designed for BDSM purposes, and using them can cause nerve damage (handcuff neuropathy) or other tissue damage. It’s easy to wear them tighter than intended. Also, if you lose the key, you’re screwed… and not in a good way.

Blurred version

Yes, we’ve all seen those. The idea is that the fuzzy covering “eliminates one of the risks” = bruises or flesh damage from pushing against metal.

The problem is, they don’t actually help much at all. They’re just cheaper versions, and the chain is more susceptible to breaking – but so is the rest of the handcuffs. Breaking is good if you want to escape if your keys are lost, but bad if the break ends up scratching or cutting someone. There’s also the added risk of friction burns from the material.

These make for fun gag gifts but are not to be used in any serious way.

Plastic version

These are even worse than the furries. Only use them in Halloween costumes, never near the bedroom. Even beginner BDSM explorers should stay away from them. If anyone wants cheap handcuffs, there are better ones on the market.

Zipper Chain

Police use these handcuffs for short-term detention. They are also useful when disposing of bodily fluids – as they can be thrown in the trash afterwards. However, the edges can cause the same damage as metal handcuffs, although they are easier to escape if something goes wrong during play. Still, avoid using these handcuffs.

– Hinged cuffs

Law enforcement officers also use these cuffs, which are a more advanced version of chain cuffs. These cuffs are used to further restrict movement, or when someone is resisting. A more advanced version of chain cuffs are “bar cuffs,” which have a solid bar instead of folding hinges. They are a more advanced version of cuffs that reduce movement, but are cumbersome to carry because they cannot fold.

Old-fashioned

These old boys are popular in the BDSM community because they pose little (or no) risk of being too tight. If they are well made, they can also have smooth edges, avoiding cuts or abrasions. There is still the issue of bruising if someone “fights back.”

While the security factor may be higher, the price may also be higher. These are really only for people who like them, use handcuffs regularly, and have the money. If you find a cheap pair, be careful. Oh, and make sure they have a quick way to escape in addition to the key.

BDSM Specialties

I won’t go into too much detail (because there are so many), but the kink community has made many different styles of shackles to suit your every kink or situation. Some can be attached to nipple clamps or leg irons. Some can even be used as delicate decorative chains. Please use these shackles with caution.

You want

Well, finally! Whether you’re a newbie or a veteran, these are the BDSM handcuffs you’ll want. The buckle straps give the dominant a good balance between comfort and security without slipping off. The fur lining provides less friction than the fur lining (because the cuffs are wider). The buckle straps are also harder to take off during play, but easy to take off if a problem occurs.

Finally, any good cuff will have a sturdy chain, but also a clip that can be undone instantly. Just make sure belts, straps, chains and other bits and bobs are of high quality – check the edges of the leather, for example, if they’re sharp (and not smooth/rounded), that’s a bad sign.

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