The Wild Secrets Charm + Heat is the latest addition to my growing collection of sex toys. It has earned the right to stay. Whether you’re single or happily married, it’s important to have a healthy relationship with your sexuality. I highly recommend making time for your body to feel loved and cared for. If you’re not sure what feels good and haven’t yet established a connection with your body, now is the perfect time to start exploring with the help of this heated G-spot vibrator.
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The design of Charm + Heat is simple yet stylish, and I can see why you might overlook that. But it has a few extra features that many vibrators don’t have. The tip of the toy is heated and I personally like to use it externally first to arouse the entire clitoris. Pair it with some water-based lube and try tracing it along the labia and glans (tip) of the clitoris. Doing this before inserting the vibrator feels great and increases blood flow. This way you can make the entire clitoris become erect, which will make penetration more pleasurable. If you want to get things really spicy, use a pea-sized amount of Wild Secret Sensual Arousal Gel and massage it around your clitoris with a low-vibration charm.
Charm + Heat is made from medical-grade silicone that’s body-safe and phthalate-free, which means it’s healthy for pusswa. This also means that oil-based and silicone-based lubricants are not suitable as they can break down the material of the sex toy. Charm + Heat is also waterproof, making it a versatile toy that you can use in the bedroom, bathroom, and anywhere you want to wear it.
It’s rechargeable via USB and features easy-to-use buttons to power on and off and turn on the heating. When heating mode is activated, the red light will illuminate. Charm features 10 different vibration functions, including standard power increase and pulsation options. If you’re like me, I usually stick to the first three options.
If you like a lot of stimulation around your G-spot, this toy will definitely be your favorite. It’s perfectly curved to stimulate the G-spot and the inside of the clitoris. With heat and ridges, The Charm provides an extra kick to get you heading towards the big O.
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As a single woman in my 30s, I’m grateful that no one can do this as well as I can. It took me ten years to discover what I liked and incorporate it into sexual partners. When I was younger, I underestimated how much I would want to use a vibrator during sex with men. Nowadays, it’s really non-negotiable for me. If you’re wondering how to use a vibrator with your partner, let me quickly spark your imagination:
- mutual masturbation
- Put on a show for your partner. Can’t touch, but they can watch
- Your partner can use a vibrator on you. This is a great solution if they need a break or are dealing with premature ejaculation
- You can get spicy and used for double penetration
As a qualified psychosexologist, I believe in having a solid understanding of the factors that influence your sexual identity and sexual scripts. This might look like the persona you gravitate towards when having sex with your lover, or the thoughts that run through your head when you masturbate. Exploring your body and different sex toys alone is one way to expand your gender identity. You may find that your body responds better to G-spot-targeted sex toys like Charm + Heat, and telling your sex partner what you like will enhance your pleasure.
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Charm + Heat is a wonderful and easy to use toy. If you’re like me and you’re trying a heated sex toy for the first time, it provides gentle heat. I wasn’t sure what to expect at first, but I felt relieved when I realized the toy wasn’t boiling hot. I would compare the heat to the temperature of his hands. This makes the experience more natural and more relaxing both physically and mentally.
I firmly believe that we should all have staples in our sex toy drawers, just like our clothes. What we need isn’t a good pair of jeans and a blazer, but a good G-spot massager and clitoral stimulator. Don’t wait until your 30s to start prioritizing happiness like I did. Treat yourself to the Charm vibrator, which will forever be a sex toy must-have.