triple stimulation masturbation

Attention people with vulvas: There’s a new orgasm in town.

Just when you think you’ve reached orgasm, along comes a toy type designed to find all your secret sexual nerve endings and take them on a gorgeous ride.

First, let’s talk about the location of all those nerve endings: the clitoris.

The clitoris is bigger than you think

Only relatively recently has the scientific community taken female sexual pleasure (and the pleasure of anyone with a vulva) seriously. We still have a long way to go: the first study of clitoral anatomy was published in 1998, and it was first studied under MRI in 2005. For anyone, this was less than 20 years ago.

But we finally have updated information about the actual size of the clitoris. It’s a pretty big pleasure organ! While you might not know it, it’s largely underground.

I’ve written before about the structure of the clitoris and how much it dilates during sexual arousal. Can you see that little bump? It’s literally just a tip. The rest of it is a spongy shaft that extends into your body, splitting into two clitoral legs that run along the sides of your vagina.

But that’s not where the clitoris stops. It also contains a light bulb that wraps around the opening of your urethra (where you pee) to illuminate your vaginal opening during sex. If you’ve ever loved being teased during oral sex or foreplay…now you know why.

Confused? Google images! But here’s another anatomy lesson for you.

The G-spot is part of the clitoral network

That’s it. This is a big reason why dual stimulation toys are so popular. One part of the toy stimulates the external clitoris, while the other part of the toy goes inside, stimulating your internal clitoral network. These include the G-spot, an area about two inches inside the vagina on the front wall.

These toys are designed to create otherworldly pleasurable sensations so that (ideally) you can have two different types of orgasms at the same time. This is what we call…

mixed orgasm

This just might be the holy grail of happiness. Any time you have a clitoral orgasm and a G-spot orgasm at the same time, you’re technically experiencing a mixed orgasm. You may also see stars.

Double stimulation is truly magical. But recently, engineers have devised another way to access more sexual nerve endings and take advantage of all the clitoral science we have available. If you have a vulva, your masturbation routine can become very exciting.

Enter: Triple Stimulus Toys

Triple stimulation vibrators are the new frontier of sex toys, full stop.

LELO mystery wave

Just like suction toys exploded the sex toy market upon their release, triple stimulation toys are another paradigm shift. this LELO’s Enigma Wave* This is probably the best example of its kind. It uses a motor to create sonic pulses on your external clitoris (which feels like an incredible blowjob). Meanwhile, a larger arm is mounted inside, but it doesn’t just vibrate. It moves back and forth in realistic finger-like motions, applying more pressure to the G-spot than a typical “buzz.” They call it WaveMotion technology, and it combines this satisfying visceral stimulation with fun and profound sensations. There are a total of three motors inside this thing, and they work together to find and pleasure the deeper nerve endings within the entire clitoral network.

Guys, this isn’t just going to give you a mixed orgasm. Triple stimulation toys return…

Train your body to squirt

Yes! G-spot stimulation is key to releasing the fluid within Skene’s glands. These are the glands responsible for squirting, so if you want to try this sex act, I can’t think of a better trainer than a triple stimulator.

How do I drive this thing?

For internal orgasms and squirting, I always recommend reaching a clitoral orgasm first—or at least, stimulating your clitoris generously. This will help engorge the entire area.

When you’re ready, carefully insert the larger arm of the toy with plenty of lube. If you are using mystery waveknowing that it has three motors. This is so exciting! Start on a lower setting and take slow, deep breaths.

Internal orgasms have a way of building into a huge, satisfying release. If you feel it getting closer, this would be a good time to build up your strength. But if you’re dedicated to squirting, remove the toy as soon as you feel your orgasm approaching. This will allow your fluids to be released as well, resulting in a truly amazing masturbation experience.

sexy sex

To get more blood flowing to your genitals, you can try arousal gels and lubricants. These encourage more blood flow to your genitals and often cause a tingling sensation.

Another option? Slow down and soak in the pleasure: Meditation, masturbation, manifestation are my favorite solo sex rituals. Give it a try when you’ve had a long, luxurious moment and want to channel the energy of your orgasm toward your life goals.

It’s up to you whether you want to try a triple stimulation toy. But I have a feeling they’re going to be the next big thing in solo sex. If you’re a part of it, enjoy the ride…and all the glorious climaxes ahead.