Transgender woman needs help deciding her first…

Hi, I’m a non-op trans woman who has been taking hormones for a few months and am thinking about buying my first vibrator, as I’ve been having more and more trouble using my hands lately. I’m still not sure what type of vibrator I want. On the one hand, I’ve heard a lot of trans women rave about the Wand, but I’m not sure if that’s the best fit for me. I prefer quieter toys, as the walls in my apartment are thin, and I’m not sure how much intensity I really need, or whether I should care more about the rumble or the intensity. I’ve narrowed my search down to a few options, but of course I’m still open to new suggestions. The original Wand doesn’t seem to be available in Germany, so the seemingly safe choice is out of the questionTT 1. FunFactory Vim From what I’ve heard, it’s very rumbley. How good is that actually? I can barely feel any part of the penis, so how good is that deep rumble? I’d love to hear from cis women who don’t have much feeling in their vaginal walls about this (similar, I guess?), and of course trans women who have the same problem\^\^ 2. Lovesense Domi 2 It’s small, a bit rumbley too, and pretty powerful from what I’ve heard. Do I really need a very powerful vibrator? This will be my first vibrator, so I don’t know how strong I need it to be. I’d love to know how strong other trans girls here need it\^\_\^ I’ve read some pretty old posts and comments in this subreddit that mentioned this several times, which is the only reason it came up on my radar, maybe there are toys that are better than the domi 2 that weren’t mentioned at the time, if so: please tell me!! 3. Bullet clitoral vibrator? This one is still a long way off, because I don’t know if this is a good idea. I’d love a smaller toy, but I don’t know exactly how to use it (whether to put it on the base or on the gland), so I still need to think a little more about whether it should be powerful or more rumbley. Of course, it would be perfect if there was a vibrator with a wide range, but I know that’s probably not possible. Since I’m still not too sure about this type of vibrator, I’d really appreciate a recommendation. I saw one from Lelo, but decided not to buy it due to some news I heard about this company from this subreddit, and I don’t want to support this kind of news. Of course, a larger intensity range would be nice in general, but I think the medium intensity would be enough for my first vibrator. It should also be available in Germany. Of course, there are things I don’t want. I don’t want anything for anal use, and a stroker is out of the question. I set myself a budget cap of 250 euros and will never go over 350 euros. What do you guys think? Do you perhaps have a better idea? I’d very much welcome any comments and suggestions\^\^

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