“If you’re not looking for something serious, don’t talk to me.”
The phrase is popping up on more dating profiles than ever before, as tired-of-single Australians struggle to put an end to the common and frustrating experience of finding love.
New data shows daters are demanding “transparency and intent” and “open communication,” part of a growing new trend that Tinder calls the “loud look” in its 2024 Swipe report.
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Singles prioritize trustworthiness (40%), physical attractiveness (35%), shared values (31%), and emotional availability (30%)—suggesting a general resistance to ghosting and breadcrumbs ” and other bad dating habits.
“Dates are no longer willing to settle for ambiguity or mixed signals,” Tinder Australia communications director Kirsty Dunn told news.com.au.
“Instead, they are seeking connections that align with their values and provide authentic, meaningful interactions.
“This trend is reshaping dating into a more purposeful and purposeful experience.”
Daters are “taking charge” of their journey to find love, with dating apps showing that their resumes are now filled with clear and unambiguous statements about what they want.
“Looking for…” was the most mentioned thing in Tinder bios in 2024, which shows that people are being honest from the start.
By 2025, one in four singles will bring optimism to their pursuit of love, spawning the rise of another new dating trend called “nanoships.”
What is a nanoship?
Dunn explained that there is a growing trend of being used to describe a romantic connection that is often “so small that it may seem insignificant to some people, but it is meaningful.”
“It can be as fleeting as a shared glance on the bus, an exchange of smiles in a coffee shop, or a ‘good morning’ text from someone that brings a little extra sunshine to your day,” she said .
“These micro-connections are about finding joy in the little sparks along the way in search of ‘Mr. Right.’
“They emphasized the importance of appreciating the small moments and seeing the potential in every interaction.”
But while some may think nanoships feel like they’re setting the bar too low, Tinder thinks we can expect nanoships to continue “booming as singles enjoy these micro-connections while looking for their forever person.” “
Dunn said the new dating trends reflect a shift in the way singles date.
“Many daters are now choosing to embrace optimism and focus on small, meaningful interactions rather than waiting for grand romantic gestures,” she says.
“They bring a positive attitude to their dating experiences and find joy in these small moments. This is part of a broader trend of prioritizing quality over quantity and valuing real, real-world connections.
“The rise of nanoships actually illustrates a more careful and intentional approach to dating. Singles reject the idea that meaningful connections have to be dramatic or legendary.
“Instead, they recognize the magic in small, everyday interactions and find positivity in the little things that bring joy.”
She added that the trend is “a reflection of resilience and hope,” showing that even in a chaotic world, daters tend to be optimistic and create their own happiness.
The “Hopecore” trend emerges
This sentiment permeates into the next trend revealed in Tinder’s 2024 Swipe Report.
Singles are valuing optimism more than ever, with many embracing “hopecore,” a state of mind that focuses on positivity and joy in relationships.
“Given that we live in a world filled with political tensions and economic pressures, this cultural shift toward optimism in dating is very encouraging,” Dunn said.
“Singles place greater value on uplifting connections and qualities such as trustworthiness and loyalty, and these preferences align with the growing popularity of ‘golden energy’ among partners, symbolizing dependability and positivity.”