Love is a game – here’s how to score a touchdown.
Browsing through apps hoping to find the right match can sometimes seem like spitting out a Hail Mary.
But on Jan. 5, the Super Bowl Sunday of online dating, singles looking for a soul mate can put on their clothes, strategize and get married in 2025, says Dating.com expert Bela Gandhi Find a dream partner.
“With 46.4 percent of the U.S. adult population being single, falling in love is one of the top priorities for nearly half of Americans,” Gandhi told The Washington Post.
“Sundays are the busiest [online dating] Of the days of the week, the Sunday after New Year’s Day is the most popular,” the pro continued, adding that 33% of daters update their profiles and photos during the first week of the new year to attract new lures .
And she’s not pretending.
Tinder’s virtual cupid previously told The Washington Post that the number of messages sent on “Date Sunday” increased by 22%, users responded 19.4 minutes faster than on any other Sunday of the year, and the number of “likes” on the app An increase of 18.2%.
According to insiders, as people spruce up their profiles, the number of likes on the app may increase by about 58.7 million and the number of messages sent may increase by 11.4 million compared with the rest of the year.
That’s good news for loveless loners in New York City, which was recently deemed the “worst city for romantic marriage.”
This may be even more encouraging to wannabe girlfriends and wives everywhere who start the new year by gobbling up 12 fruity balls based on the tried and tested “Grape Theory” and hopefully soon Can summon a cute companion after changing the calendar.
But Gandhi’s tips for finding a lover online are less mysterious and more down-to-earth.
Here are her tips for starting the new year in the love end zone.
Become the No. 1 pick picture
Prepare five or six great photos of yourself.
Your first photo should be a clear, high-resolution headshot of you looking into the camera and smiling. Looking warm and trustworthy can instantly build visual rapport.
Post body photos, too—people want to see you from head to toe, Gandhi told The Washington Post. If all you have is a headshot, you might feel like you’re hiding something.
They are all MVP (most lively photos)
Your photos should be recent – no more than a year old!
Delete photos where it’s hard to tell who you are because you’re surrounded by friends. We all have buds – your dating profile doesn’t need to prove it.
You’re the one they want to date, so just provide a photo you – Not your kids, food, sunsets, etc.
Don’t be afraid to hand it over
Have someone review your photos objectively.
Research shows that we don’t pick our best photos, so ask someone you trust to help you choose your best photos.
Avoid phone misuse
You don’t want to give out your real cell phone number to a bunch of strangers. We can often “Google” a mobile number.
Dating.com offers video dating capabilities that allow users to connect more deeply, securely, and take their relationships to the next level.
Keep your head in the game
When messaging people back and forth, end each message with a question. If not, you let the ball drop.
Nothing is more irritating than when you don’t stick to your end of the bargain in a conversation.
Remember you are the winner
Show some personality – use emojis and exclamation points, but not too many. We lose a lot of context when we just text back and forth.
Warm your message with smiley faces, hearts, and exclamation points to show that you’re funny and warm.
This is no Work memo!