Everyone is attracted to different things, and some people real It’s like pretending to have a baby. Breeding issues are all the rage on TikTok, so what’s going on?
What is a reproductive kink?
Fertility fetishism is when a person is excited by the idea of getting pregnant or getting someone else pregnant. Regardless of gender, you may find this out by enjoying sex without a condom (barebacking) or the risks involved. For some it’s just a fantasy, while for others it’s very real and woven into the fascination of having a baby or being pregnant. Unsurprisingly, it overlaps with the original game as it tapped into our basic sexual instincts.
Is it common?
This is certainly not unusual! In Insider interview, sex educator Gigi Engel claims reproductive kink is becoming increasingly popular thanks to sex education. It’s also more common in women.
Gigi: “I think a lot of it comes from the way we’re taught about sex and this very dangerous mindset about sex as opposed to pleasure.”
Many kinks and fetishes stem from taboos. If something is forbidden, it’s exciting to do it! Between the push for safer sex and the flood of information about teen pregnancy, unprotected sex has become an exciting taboo.
So you were always pregnant?
No! Breeding (or pregnancy) fetish is different from pregnancy fetishalthough clearly they complement each other. Some people with fertility fetishes don’t actively want children; they just like the pretense. Gay men may even have fetishesmore on this later.
There’s even a fantasy side that involves role-playing being impregnated by an alien! However, this is certainly not an excuse to trick people into having unprotected sex or impregnating someone without consent; this is sexual assault.
Why are people keen on it?
There are many reasons, but not all of them are wanting to have children. Broadly speaking, this boils down to Risk, increased intimacy, and elements of dominance/submission.
risk: For some, the risk of pregnancy from unprotected sex is a thrill in itself. Even if you are using another form of birth control—such as birth control pills, implants, or IUDs— It feels exciting to “play” without protection.
If you choose this route, it’s crucial to take safety precautions. Regular STI testing is a must If multiple partners are involved, conversations about consent and limits should be had with any co-sleeping partners, whether long-term or otherwise. Also, if you’re capable of getting pregnant, it’s a good idea to have a pregnancy test on hand…
Intimacy: Picture the scene; the atmosphere is filled with the feeling of a tearing corset and the handsome hero standing before his lover. The magnetism of animals is so strong that they can’t help but be overwhelmed and forget the consequences.
It’s erotic as you and your partner throw “just let it go”let’s be honest, everyone likes to get lost in the moment. There are no barriers to sex in any sense.
Dominance/Submission: at the same time, Some will take pleasure in being objectified and treated like a mare, while others will enjoy the power that comes with being a stallion. Whether gay or straight, the idea of ”bringing up” and allowing your bodily autonomy to be overridden by a dominant partner can be hot. Being “claimed” or “labeled” by others brings humiliation. Plus, if you’re a man who enjoys being penetrated anally, there’s a feminine element to it. With the right swear words, you can hint that bottoms are so submissive, they might even be able to breed.
discovery channel style
Many people stumble upon this kink because it can be triggered by a natural response to sex. Evolution has spent a long time building a rewarding response to sex and implicit reproduction, even if you don’t want children.
So, now that you’ve agreed to birth control (unless you’re trying to have a baby), how do you try to reproduce your kink?
dominate your partner
In addition to having sex without a condom and having sex done indoors, the breeder’s main tool is Dirty talk and ownership contact. Touch your partner’s belly reverently or territorially while whispering in their ear how much you want to breed them. Say, “Do you want me to be your dad/mom?” followed by “I’m going to fill you up with my cum” or begging them to cum; that’s the kind of vibe you want. Act as the dominant and exert your power over the recipient or give in to animal instincts.
However, before mumbling a word, it’s best to first Check with your partner which languages they can speak! A person who accepts the risks of fetishism may not necessarily accept the humiliation.
be your own dad
So, do you feel the need to breed? We know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but when isn’t it fun to have some exploratory role play? As long as you’re safe, sane, and everyone agrees, what’s the harm in acting like the proverbial rabbit?