The gift she really wants

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Would you like to give your wife a gift that she really wants? Will she treasure the gift for years to come? How about making a permanent change that you know she wants? May no longer do or say things she doesn’t like. Or it could be starting to do something that she’s already expressed that she wants you to do.

I know such changes are not easy. The question you have to ask yourself is whether you think she’s worth it. If so, do whatever it takes to make the change and stick with it.

If you have a good idea of ​​what changes she wants, I think your best option is to just do it without saying anything. Let her figure it out; when she sees the results, let her ask you about it.

If you don’t know what she wants you to change, you can ask her. If you think this is going to be bad, here’s a list of responses from 174 women when asked what changes they would like their husbands to give them for Christmas.

• Help: preferably without asking. If you’re not sure, ask what you can do. Oh, and Please collect it yourself!
• Communication: When she talks to you, she wants your attention. Many women also asked for better communication skills and less harshness.
• Many interviewees mentioned anger and impatience.
• Many wives want to spend more time with their husbands, and most of them complain that their husbands spend too much time on video games, television, and the Internet. Don’t get so caught up in technology that you neglect your wife!
• Some worry about their husbands and children. Some wanted more help, but most were more concerned with him spending time with the kids. Some mentioned wanting him to be a better role model and spiritual leader.
• Many women mentioned integrity. One couple specifically mentioned lying, but most said they expected him to “do what he said he would do” and “finish what he started.”
• Health issues: Weight, smoking, exercise, drinking and drug use are all concerns.
• gender. Yes, some people want better sex. A couple wants more, but the bigger issue is showing desire for her, not desire for sex.
• Also, when you have sex, be sure to bring her pleasure.
• Personal Hygiene: Many women will appreciate regular brushing, flossing, and showering.
• Stop lusting after other women. Yes, they see you do it.

[This post first appeared Dec 11, 2012.]

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