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Hey guys, when you think about porn, do you instantly lose interest? Yeah, we’ve heard that. It’s 2023, but still It’s not easy to find the porn you actually want to watch, that is, a porn that is popular and actually OK Porn doesn’t overemphasize the male gaze or male orgasms. Sure, you can look through the videos and find one that focuses on female pleasure and (exaggerated/fake) female orgasms – but even then, you get the distinct feeling that there’s still a man calling the shots because of the way it’s filmed. To be honest, even if you watch it with a male partner, you get the feeling that the porn you want to enjoy isn’t For youThis can make it harder to immerse yourself in a story or feeling the way you want to—you should It can, and there is good porn.
In other words: Which porn sites cater to the female gaze, respect female sexuality in all its beautiful forms, and don’t objectify women and make you want to shower immediately after watching it (in a bad way)? Which porn sites feel up-to-date and in line with our expectations of sexual media today?
Fear no more friends, because we’ve found some truly excellent porn sites for modern, self-loving women. If you’re tired of porn that feels overwhelmingly straight and cisgender male-centric, the following selection of sites will surprise you. And while we’re at it, maybe it’s time to get yourself some new sex toys to really heat things up.
I have to warn you guys though: be careful not to browse this at your desk, because from now on you will be able to access some NSFW sites. Click with caution, and when you have some alone time, enjoy it!
A version of this article was published in April 2018.
Quinn
Audio porn has been a hot topic in porn, and while it’s different than visual porn, you can rest assured that it’s ethical and to your taste. Quinn, for example, is particularly cool, with a super user-friendly interface, a sexy and dreamy voice lineup, and carefully curated inclusive playlists to suit all your tastes. If audio porn ticks all the boxes for you, try our favorite porn podcasts to keep the good times rolling.
Surface sea
Well, one more audio porn, just for fun. Dipsea is another excellent example of how sexy and fun it can be to tune in and hear some sexy voices talking about sexy things. With its clean and beautiful interface, inclusive and diverse cast, and well-thought-out, consent-focused stories, you’ll love plugging in and enjoying almost everything in their library.
beauty
Imagine if Pornhub or RedTube became even more unapologetically female-friendly — that, dear friends, is Bellesa. You’re welcome, enjoy.
sssh.com
Billed as a “smart, sexy porn destination made by women, for women,” Sssh.com gives you access to a wide variety of content, from videos to reading material, all geared toward women. You’re sure to find a medium that will satisfy your needs.
XConfessions
Created by feminist adult filmmaker Erika Lust, XConfessions brings to life very real, very sexy stories submitted by all kinds of people. Yes, it’s as sexy as it sounds.
literature
If you’re more interested in words than images, or you’re looking for quieter, more discreet erotica, head over to Literotica and let your imagination run free in the tantalizing stories submitted there.
Vivid
Vivid-Ed, part of Vivid Entertainment and run by sex educator and podcaster Tristan Taormino, lives up to its reputation, helping you become the best, most powerful sexual being you can be through articles, movies, photos, and more.
Tangled
Whether you’re already an experienced fan of kinky sex or you’re just looking to test the waters, Kink has the videos you need to achieve the sexual experiences you desire.
dusk
Dusk is a subscription-based site that offers a variety of educational articles, as well as very sexy viewing material made just for women.