Sex expert: Men who cry make better lovers

Crying boys make better lovers.

It turns out that people who cry are better in the sack, according to a sex expert.

“Men who cry make the best lovers,” says relationship expert Marina Lazaris, author of Men Need Love Too.

“The line between vulnerability and masculinity is the biggest challenge facing men in today’s society,” Lazaris told The Sun.

She explains that finding a man who is in touch with their emotions allows people to find “a lifetime of rewards, not just a day’s rewards.”

Gen Z seems to be waking up to this, as many young women are looking for good men who are in touch with their feminine side—the kind of brunch-loving, affectionate man known as a “baby girl.” Take actor Jacob Elordi, for example.

“I think the definition of masculinity is changing,” Adam Cohen-Aslatei, director of Tawkify’s matchmaking service, previously told The Washington Post.

“Some traditional norms are changing. Today’s masculinity is not about being a tough guy, but about honesty, respect, protection and emotional expression.”

According to Bumble’s 2024 Dating Trends Report, approximately 31% of American men have actively changed their behavior to become more vulnerable and open to dating partners.

“Men are now more willing to express themselves emotionally, their authentic selves, and let their personality shine through, rather than putting up barriers or worrying about being too emotionally expressive,” Cohen-Asratai noted.

Bumble reports that for one in four men (25% globally), this newfound openness has had a positive impact on their emotional state.

“This desire to destigmatize men’s mental health is coupled with a desire to reshape masculinity in a way that encompasses a broader aesthetic and emotional spectrum,” said Gabriel Rubin, a justice studies professor at Montclair State University. Closely related,” told The Post.