Sex ends too quickly—men are twice as likely to want to slow down

Bang, bang, no thank you, ma’am.

More than a third of sex-goers surveyed said a quick intercourse leaves them wanting more – with men almost twice as likely as women to express dissatisfaction with the overtly brief intercourse pattern, a new relationship study shows. times.

Sex experts say Nooky tech app Beducated recently took a deep dive into the DMs of some 2,300 sexually active adults around the world to compile a summer 2024 survey that wasn’t released in advance — and the above-mentioned level of efficiency was among the top complaints from respondents. .

The data compiled shows that 30 to 60 minutes is the ideal length of flaky monster playtime, but a large number of people say they don’t reach that goal.

Erectile dysfunction, mismatched desires and busy daily life are considered to be possible time and energy stealers.

“This finding suggests that we need to slow down during sex, especially in long-term relationships,” the study authors warned.

It turns out that not only do we want our courses to last longer, but we’re also eager to get out of the rut.

While more than 80 per cent of respondents see penetration as a mainstay of the sex menu, 70 per cent said there’s nothing wrong with not having sex during sex, which experts say is indicative of our intimacy value system An evolution is taking place.

Educated co-founder Mariah Freya noted that “preferences change slightly but interestingly” year after year.

These, she explains, “meant deeper exploration and ever-changing intimacy.”

For example, it was revealed that one in 10 men admitted to enjoying oral sex and anal pleasure at the same time.

However, missionary remains the most popular penetration position.

“It’s fascinating to witness how people embrace traditional and modern aspects of sexual expression, and how these insights further shape the conversation around healthy relationships and sexuality,” Freya said.

Overall, less than half of the participants described their sex lives as “mostly” or “very” satisfying, with a median rating of 3 out of 5 for their boudoir behavior.

The survey shows that the subgroup with the highest sexual satisfaction is women aged 40 and above.

“Many women have already accepted their bodies by this age, which makes performance anxiety less likely,” Freya speculates.

“The more relaxed we are in the bedroom, the more likely we are to enjoy ourselves.”