Seven Ambiguous Relationships Between Men and Women

One of the ambiguous relationships: siblings (brothers and sisters)

Ambiguity index: ****

Innocence Index: ***

Signature slogan: “So-and-so is my brother and we are related.”

“She’s 10 years younger than me, little sister…”

Analysis of relationships:

For the “brother”, the meaning of the little sister’s existence is to make him want to protect her. When the heroism in a man’s heart needs to be fulfilled, when he feels helpless and alone, the intelligence and weakness of the “little sister” often put him at ease more than ordinary tenderness and thoughtfulness, and her adoration for him makes him feel special. Trust only satisfies a man’s desire to conquer her mind. For “sister”, what she wants is simple: to be loved and protected.

For “sister”, before there is a perfect boyfriend, “brother” is a very close little disciple, he has the double advantage of a man and a boy, he will not deliberately live with her, she is in trouble, he will not. betray the oath, when his mother revealed that he has become a cute and innocent “little thing”. For “brother”, “sister” is usually a trustworthy woman, full of feminine charm.

Potential crisis:

In real life, it is difficult for most “family” relationships to develop into real romantic relationships. In this relationship between men and women, there is a lot of compassion and love, and there is almost no common language, let alone experience. In addition, the feelings of “siblings” towards “siblings” are often heavier and more complicated, and it is easy to fall into it. Once the “ambiguity” is excessive, once the “siblings” have lovers, the “siblings” will inevitably become a stumbling block.

Ambiguous relationship 2: red face and blue face

Ambiguity index: *****

Innocence Index:*

Signature slogan: “A woman’s heart and body may be separated, there is only one pure word between us.”

“There is no pure friendship between men and women? It’s just because you can’t find a confidant.”

“She’s my soulmate. We understand each other but never possess each other.”

Analysis of relationships:

When they are bored and encounter various problems in life, they will become fish that “help each other”. Once the water returns to the tide, they swim. Even if both parties have their own lovers, some private and intimate words are only spoken to “Beautiful Blue”. To a certain extent, this kind of relationship between men and women is mainly a spiritual love. It can also be said that compared to the relationship between lovers, they only lack physical communication.

Potential crisis:

Even the most innocent confidants can easily be considered third parties if one of the lovers is not open-minded and rational enough; secondly, they are a man and a woman after all. Once “wine meets a close friend, a thousand cups is too little” and one gets too involved in affection, it is inevitable to “undress and take off one’s belt”. Once the last line of defense is broken, the relationship between “confidants” will be difficult to continue.

Ambiguous Relationship 3: Internet Lover

Ambiguity index: *****

Innocence Index: **

Signature slogan: “I love you even if I never see you. I feel everything about you and I can’t see you, that’s okay.”

“We fall in love in the world of bits. This love cannot survive without the Internet.”

Analysis of relationships:

On the Internet, they “fall in love” and even plan a wedding. Two strangers who have never met, text games are a source of addiction and mutual interest. They are addicted to them, the Internet makes them look “perfect”.

Different from ordinary online dating, most of this kind of online dating does not meet in person, but relies on the other person’s imagination to create various romantic atmospheres and assumptions.

Unlike love in real life, online lovers pay a low price and do not have to bear any moral pressure.

Potential crisis:

Because loving each other is just a maze created by their own imaginations and texts. So if you meet, it is difficult to imagine the consequences. Even beautiful dinosaurs, if you find out that the other person is the same sex… For married men and women, platonic extramarital affairs are fine, but if the computer “saves badly”, it will also affect real relationships.

Ambiguous relationship four: opposite sex living together

Ambiguity index: ***

Innocence Index: ***

Slogan: “Living alone is too much of a burden and I’m afraid of the dark. I have a boy I can take care of.”

“Its importance is reflected in the moment every month when we don’t know what else to eat but instant noodles.”

“Every time a fuse blows or a gas tank runs out of fuel, its importance is reflected…”

Analysis of relationships:

Living with a man and a woman brings more happiness, trust and relaxation than living with a woman. Just like “men and women match, work is not tiring” in the office, this new tenant relationship is full of fun in another sense. The survey shows that most women who rent with the opposite sex think that men will not negotiate every ounce. They will not care about the size, orientation and details of the room or who uses the toilet more and who uses it less. between women is more complicated. Too often, in serious cases, they may even separate and friends may object. Real men and women respect each other, keep their distance and can help each other. For both parties, not only do they enjoy most of the benefits of the opposite sex, but they also avoid the problems of mutual suspicion, exclusivity and bargaining.

Potential crisis:

The house itself is already very ambiguous. Single men and women share a room. Even if it is not the same room, it is already very close. People who return home often return to reality and are relaxed, free, loose, and even the ugly details of life are exposed in front of each other. Although some people develop love because of their very close lifestyles, they are still a man and a woman who are estranged after all. People of the opposite sex who live in a shared house can easily become lovers and go from cohabitation to living together. However, if you seek coexistence because of temporary blindness or a mentality of solving personal problems, you may be used by people with ulterior motives to hurt your feelings and disrupt your life.

Fifth ambiguous relationship: sexual partners

Ambiguity index: *****

Innocence Index:*

Signature slogan: “You only need companionship, not love.”

“There are many solutions to the emptiness of the mind, but the body is hungry and thirsty, so I need a sexual partner.”

Analysis of relationships:

White Mills said in “Personal Love Entanglement”: “One of the characteristics of modern people is the desire for an unknown personal love, just like the pursuit of wealth, appearing and stopping at the opportune moment.”

In the sense of today’s sexual partners, in addition to solving physical problems, it is more about comforting oneself and escaping reality. After all, they are afraid of being alone, and even more afraid that others will know that they are alone. We need love, we cannot live without sex. Most of the time, sex is as important as love. With a sexual partner and at least the warmth of your body, you can temporarily forget your inner loneliness.

Potential crisis:

Russell once said: “Love can renew our whole life, as rain after a drought does to plants. Sex without love, but has no power. After a time of entertainment, what remains is weariness, disgust and the emptiness of life.”

Ambiguous relationship six: Part-time parents (driver, bodyguard, nanny…)

Ambiguity index: ****

Innocence Index: **

Signature slogan: “He has a car anyway, he just gave me a ride on the way.”

“It’s always normal for a man to invite a woman to dinner. If he’s willing to invite, I’m willing to eat, no matter what anyone else thinks!”

Analysis of relationships:

Much of their relationship is born out of professional collaborations. Often, women take the initiative to think that it is natural to be taken care of by men, and the “heroic” mentality of men makes them feel especially honored. In this relationship, more components are often used.

Potential crisis:

Because this relationship is simply based on “taking care of each other and enjoying each other,” men and women often lack a common language. Failure to care, or lack of attentive “service,” can easily lead to a deterioration in the relationship. In addition, gossip often arises around these “part-time parents.” Maybe you just took someone’s ride, but how do others know where the car ends?