Role-playing creativity, unleash your quirky side

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Role playing isn’t just a way for couples to spice up or reinvigorate their sex life. Everyone has some fantasy they’d like to fulfill, but often they’re too nervous to ask for it.

good news?

This is perfectly normal and has happened to millions of people. Here are some role-playing ideas so you can have some fun with your partner…

Common role-playing fantasies

Boss and Employees- This is a great role-playing idea because the roles can be easily switched, taking turns as the boss, and changing up the requests or scenarios. Plus, who doesn’t find office attire sexy?

Master, Slave, Switching – It’s all about the thrill of power exchange, whether it’s taking control or giving it, as well as respect and trust, which are the cornerstones of BDSM. If you’re new to it, all you need is something to tie your partner up with. Don’t forget to set a safe word.

firefighter- How would you repay someone who saved you from a burning building? Or “Oh, you came to the wrong house, why don’t you stay a while and have some fun?”.

Servant/Maid/Butler – They should have cleaned up, but damn, you just can’t take your eyes off her. Plus, the costumes are super accessible and super sexy.

Hitchhiker – This is a game that’s all about fantasies of strangers, but with a car. Pretend to pick them up on the side of the road. Foreplay can start in the car and may go further, depending on where you’re driving. The thrill of getting caught can add extra excitement.

Prostitute or call girl – There is a chance to wear tight, revealing clothes and different makeup. Maybe it is the first time for a virgin and they want to go to a professional. This kind of role play can be a lot of fun.

police officer- Another power role play. This time there is an opportunity to introduce handcuffs for some light bondage and restriction. Also available are scenes with prison guards and prisoners.

Movie or Book Characters – The possibilities are endless with this one. Tends to change with the times, Slave Leia was very popular at one point but I’m sure the younger generation has their own version.

pirate- One tip, don’t try too hard to imitate the accent. It’s funny, but not sexy. You might ruin the mood with fits of laughter, man.

Pornstars– This could be anything from reenacting your favorite porn movie to filming your own. The possibilities for locations are endless.

Video Game Characters – It is becoming more and more popular, especially in the field of role-playing. You don’t have to look far to see countless pornographic content with female characters. Make his fantasy come true!

Repairman – Someone come fix that squeaky bed, the washing machine doesn’t work, the TV doesn’t work. We all know those cheesy porn movie opening lines, it’s just like those.

Agent – Play the role of a spy and perform some sexual acts. You can start outside and then move into more private areas. Can you control yourself from revealing the information?

Animal Crossing – You don’t need to be furry all over, a simple cat ears and tail butt plug is enough! If you want a furry body, then you need to invest more time and money.

Fairy Tale Characters – Almost every man dreams of having sex with one of the Disney princesses/princes, or maybe even both at the same time. It’s easy to find cheap costumes online, so you can add some variety.

You can also check out J. Scott Campbell’s Fairy Tale Imagery for more ideas.

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Sports stars and fans – Much like a Hollywood star. Just replace Oscar’s outfit with a sweatshirt. There is another variation of rock stars and groupies.

Strangers in the Bar – You make eye contact over happy hour cocktails, and the attraction is enough to make you want to hop to the hotel and head to the nearest bathroom, closet, or spare room.

Strippers– The main rule at strip clubs is don’t touch the dancers. But a private dance? Depends on how much you tip. No poles required, just a chair and some sexy moves.

Super hero – Just like video games, this field has grown tremendously in the past few years. There are countless characters to choose from, and many skin-tight costumes that are perfect for living out the dream.

Teachers and students – This is probably the most well-known fantasy, probably because the schoolgirl outfits are forever sexy. It’s every young man’s fantasy to switch roles and have a female teacher.

From fantasy to reality

For many people, the idea of ​​sexual role-playing remains a secret in their minds — mostly because they’re afraid to broach the subject with their significant other.

Maybe it’s because over time, the passion fades and their sex life becomes less exciting and stimulating and more mundane. Or maybe they’re afraid of what their partner will think or say, worried they’ll think you’re “weird” or “perverted.”

Newsflash…everyone thinks so!

We all have a deep-seated fear of being laughed at and rejected. In addition, not everyone has established such channels of communication in their relationships that they cannot talk openly about their desires.

What’s the best thing you can do?

Take it easy- It all comes down to patience, waiting for the right moment, and dropping some hints if you think your significant other needs them. This doesn’t need to be a decisive conversation, either.

No is not the end of the world – Sometimes, your partner isn’t willing to try it. If so, they may have another version or fantasy in mind.

Communication and compromise are key.

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What’s your favorite role-play fantasy? Share the sexy details in the comments!