#RelationshipGoals – The Best Dating Guide for Millennials

Understanding #RelationshipGoals

Building #RelationshipGoals requires more than just love—it also requires fostering trust, communication, and mutual respect. In this article, we’ll explore some practical tips for strengthening your relationship, deepening your emotional bond, and maintaining a satisfying connection with your partner. Use these essential strategies to achieve the relationship you’ve always dreamed of.

One night, my partner asked me a question.Why do you love me?“I thought this was an easy question to answer and I started explaining his qualities and character traits, how he cared about others, was kind, a gentleman and the way he would put a smile on his face at certain moments. However, after listening to several other people explain why they loved their partners, it seemed that most only mentioned material advantages.

The second thing I noticed was that when friends, co-workers, and people in general introduce their new partners or new “friends,” they say things like “he’s a doctor,” “he drives a Mercedes,” “he’s rich,” “he spends money on me,” and “he takes me out.” Since when did monetary values ​​dictate the personality traits of the people we date and hope to fall in love with?

For some people, dating is like a job interview

It looks a bit like a dating resume, with enhanced questions and answers to prove or confirm benefits and Qualities of Falling in Love Building a relationship with someone is purely a way of seeing how good they have to offer.

Not to mention completely useless information that has absolutely nothing to do with the question being asked, imagine if you were looking for someone to mow your lawn on an area Facebook page and in your ad you wrote, “Can anyone get a quote for mowing the lawn of a large three story house overlooking the harbour”, that’s completely useless information, isn’t it?

In this day and age, people seem to feel more and more the need to brag or boast about irrelevant material values ​​without any reason.

Instead of looking for a partner with whom we can share devotion and love, we strive to find someone with whom we can post “relationship goals” on Instagram or Facebook.

#relationshipgoals When does one start deciding what we approve of in a relationship?

Love should be more than just gifts, love is hard work, love is caring for someone with all your heart and wanting the best for them in their life. Love should not be about how much money you spend or how many gifts you buy someone to prove how much you mean to them and vice versa.

Social media brings competition, and competition brings jealousy or a false sense of expectation in a relationship. There are pages dedicated to “relationship goals,” “birthday goals,” “Valentine’s Day goals,” and even “proposal goals.”

These stories flood our newsfeeds, people have materialistic expectations of these events, and if you haven’t received these enthusiastic affirmations, you feel like you’re not in the right relationship or like you’re missing out on something.

Money should not be the main factor in a relationship – #RelationshipGoals

Disappointingly, “relationship goals” are now measured by how much money your significant other spends on you. Relationships have become about bragging rights on social media rather than the love, care and intimate moments shared between two people. Relationships are no longer defined by feelings, but by how others think and feel about the gifts you receive — and our generation has got it all wrong.

Mutual appreciation and love are the meaning of interpersonal relationships

You should be happy that you have that person in your life and cherish and enjoy the little things. Sometimes our generation needs to realize that love should not be based solely on material things, we need to appreciate what we have in front of us.

My generation throws the term “relationship goals” around casually to represent simply the material aspects of a relationship, and then those goals become the wants and needs of a relationship, and they think it’s normal to buy each other overly expensive gifts and have unrealistic expectations of what we should want from our partners.

Giving gifts is a good idea, but don’t give too many – #RelationshipGoals

Unfortunately, this completely subverts our acceptance and appreciation of what relationships are really about. Gifts aren’t bad, they’re incredibly sweet and a way you can treat your significant other and surprise them. However, the idea has been touted as an “Instagram-worthy” moment and bragging rights.

We envy what others have, or what they get, but if we expect these things when we enter a relationship, or post these things to make others envy us, then the relationship will quickly go downhill.

Social media is very good at glorifying those who appear to “have it all” and creates the expectation that you need to spend a ton of money to have that “social media approved” relationship.

Special moments shared are priceless

A simple laugh, a hug, time spent together are worth more in the long run. There is no definition of a “perfect relationship”, but everyone has their own idea of ​​a perfect person, someone you would love to be with, grow old with, enjoy the little moments and the big ones, and create memories.

We need to remember that happiness is an important goal and relationships are not all unicorns and rainbows, it takes working together, overcoming obstacles, and working on your relationship every day.

At the end of the day, the only person you can count on is your significant other. Material things get broken, left in drawers or forgotten. But your “person” will be there for you through all the ups and downs, their laughs, their smiles, their angry faces, their naughty grins, and all the achievements you have made together. This way you can have a Honest and lasting relationships.

Morgan x

Author: Morgan is a consultant at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Center

Meet Morgan, a young designer who advocates for equality and against violence and whose journey in the adult industry has been transformative.