Do you know what makes me wince? When people treat their partner’s orgasm like a scoreboard.

It’s great to be interested in your partner’s pleasure, but to calculate their orgasm or constantly seeking for “proof” can actually be a huge retouch.

Why? Because it shifts focus from connection to performance.

how? It’s more about you putting the gear on your belt, which can stress your partner or worsen out of place.

The truth is, not all orgasms are the same. Especially for the female body, it can produce a variety of pleasant feelings – an explosive, some gentle, some whole body, some subtle. Everything is great.

Clitoral web illustrations provided by: www.myvagina.com

The clitoris alone has over 10,000 nerve ends (more than any other part of the body), but it doesn’t stop there. The entire clitoral network extends internally, with branches connecting to the vaginal wall and neural pathways, far beyond the pelvic area.

Focusing on externally glimpsed clitoris (aka clitoral head) or relying on techniques used for your previous partner means you are missing out on an unexplored world of pleasure.

That’s the truth: many people chase the kind of dramatic orgasm they see in movies or porn. but What if you/your female partner has already experienced orgasm, that’s just the way you expected it to be? If it’s a gentle wave, a slow pulse or deep, the warmth of the whole body because it doesn’t look or feel like what you think?

This is my challenge to you: Put down the scoreboard. Remove all preconceived ideas and expectations. On the contrary, get lost now. For the fun itself, enjoy happiness with your partner and with yourself. Then do it again. Say it again.

Trust me – this is more satisfying.

xoxo,
simple

PS. If this message makes sense, but still feels impossible to practice – first, be kind to yourself. you are not alone. Second, take a deep breath. Release slowly. third, Click this link Schedule a free confidential zoom chat with me. You should be supported on this journey.