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She was scrubbing the floor and wiping emotionally.

A well-cuffed woman takes Reddit with her long-term partner, who treats housework like an optional side task – she allegedly cheers on when she dares to ask for help.

“We’ve had the same discussion for years and we haven’t found a solution together,” she wrote in a post on R/AITA Subreddit. “His excuse? “I will do it when I feel it.”

How romantic.

He plays the blame game as she juggles cleaning, cooking and relationship maintenance.

“Our threshold is just different, and if you haven’t done it, maybe I have a chance to do it,” he shrugged, rolling the mess over her.

But when tasks pile up, she is the one who deals with them.

“If he doesn’t complete the task on time, I still have to do that,” she wrote, noting that it’s hard to cook when the kitchen still looks like a war zone.

It’s not just a waste of her chaos – it’s a mental burden.

“I felt mentally disturbed and I’ve told him a lot,” she admitted. “He said I was negative about this situation and I was ridiculous and dramatic.”

When she tried to say it, she encountered a charge of “unfairness and unreasonableness.” However, he still hopes that she plans a good time, too.

She didn’t support it, but was scolded. Now, she wonders if this should be the feeling of modern love: “If so, I don’t want to join [a relationship] After that. ”

The internet was quickly supported and had some brutal burns.

“It’s not a feeling of a healthy relationship,” one user wrote. “You deserve support and don’t get rid of everything alone emotionally and physically.”

Another commenter frankly said: “He is an adult man who should be able to take charge of S-T, and that shouldn’t all fall on you. Sorry, you’re dealing with a man.”

One person came up with a kindergarten-level solution: “It’s time to get a chore chart on the refrigerator, and he can win stars for the necessary adult work.”

She has no invisible solutions, no emotionally exhausted settings – she turns to the internet. What she got was a wake-up call.

As previously reported by the post, another Redditor suggested they hire weekdays to help manage their homes, and they share the home with two big dogs.

She wrote: “When we first moved in, I was treated to most of the cleaning and cooking…but after months of work, chores and cooking juggling, and sometimes even having to cook in the middle of a meeting – I completely burned.

Although the couple initially agreed to part-time help, her request made it more regular inducing conflict.

She said her fiancé accused her of being lazy when it came to hiring daily help and avoiding responsibility – a reaction that made her angry.

Despite explaining that she wanted to be supported, he firmly said that it was not necessary. The commenter defended her in the subject.

Ultimately, many of them pointed out in this case that women are not only carrying the burden—she is carrying the healso.