Real talk about dating and relationships

The number one priority in any relationship is open and effective communication. It’s the glue that holds any successful long-term partnership together.

If you can’t communicate openly and honestly, it could ultimately lead to the end of your relationship as a couple. Parents have to work especially hard in this area due to their own busy schedules and managing their children’s daily routines and activities.

You need to nurture your relationship first. It’s okay to let the kids take a back seat once in a while. Without the fiery love you shared in the early days of your relationship, there wouldn’t be any little kids running around.

Many people forget this and over time relationships become a platonic environment. This is not what you signed up for. Take note of how to keep things fresh between you and your partner year-round!

10 important tips to keep your love strong:

Talk openly and share your feelings regularly

This point cannot be overstated and it includes all discussions. Share what’s going on in the lives of both of you outside the home. Get to know and take an interest in what each other does in their careers, personal hobbies, or passions. If something is bothering you, don’t resist having a conversation about it.

Involve your partner in every aspect of your life. It’s called a partnership because you’re supposed to share things. When one of you speaks, pay full attention. listen to each other and really heard What are they talking about.

Money is a big relationship stressor!

Sadly, money is one of the main reasons why divorce statistics are on the rise. Create a budget that you both stick to and respect as a couple. There is no need to spend a lot of money on children. They would rather have happy parents than have the latest gadget that will be obsolete next year.

They also don’t need to participate in a ton of expensive weekly activities. Tiring yourself out trying to get the kids to all these outings takes a lot of time and energy. At the end of each day, you have nothing left to give your partner. One or two sports or activities per year is enough. This will also keep your child from getting tired.

It’s also a good idea to plan regular family exercise sessions. It’s a great way to stay connected and have fun at the same time! This could be a family outing that includes hiking, playing tennis, executing a golf par three or putting.



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schedule Weekly date night!

You need to make time for each other regularly, especially during stressful times of the year. You should never be too busy to take care of each other. If you crumble, your family will crumble too. Hire a babysitter and go out to dinner.

If finances are an issue, choose cheap dates. Go for a romantic walk or a cup of coffee together. Or, trade childcare time with a neighbor or relative who also has children. Never forget to love each other and show your partner how you feel.

Try to make yourself and your partner look good.

A little sexy goes a long way! Be the same person you were when you first met. They fell in love with you for a reason, so always remember that and stay attractive.

It only takes a few minutes and a little personal effort. This will add mileage to your relationship. It shows you care. Spend half an hour every day before dinner talking about your day. Relax with a glass of wine or a cup of tea. Do this without any interruption.

Sex and intimacy are very important priorities in a relationship!

Sex doesn’t have to include an hour of foreplay. When the kids are out with friends or they’re watching their favorite TV show, a quick visit behind a locked door can bring you as close as a couple. Regular sex can make many other family problems seem less of a problem. Sex is very therapeutic!

Hold hands when going out to eat or walking down the street. Kiss each other hello and goodbye every day. Compliment your partner and notice the subtle changes when they make an effort to make you look sexy. Anytime you are romantic with each other it will help you overcome many other life stressors.



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The stress that Thanksgiving, Christmas and other holidays put on families can be heightened during these times of year.

As a couple, you must be very aware of this. It is important to discuss where you will spend your vacation. Find a system that works for your own family and your in-laws. Due to the expectations of some family members regarding these holidays, a lot of compromises need to be made on this issue.

You need to be on the same page as your partner and support each other through any family drama. As a couple, it’s important to support each other throughout the years you’re together.

Be communicative and selective about your social interactions.

Trying to do it all can put a lot of stress on you as a couple. You don’t have to do everything! Annual work events/parties should be attended by the two of you. You may want to compromise by doing certain things every other year. It is very meaningful and appreciated when you support your partner in their career.

Make sure you schedule time to get out of the house together at least once a week. Take a break from your daily routine at home. Have some fun, couples! Laughter is also important in a relationship.

Little things matter.

Leave a loving “Post-it” note for your partner. Send sweet text messages frequently throughout the day. These are great ways to show that you’ve been thinking about them during your busy days. Words are very powerful. Expressing your feelings in these simple ways can keep your love alive for years to come!

Help each other with housework. Make it a team effort. Maintaining a household is not a job for one person. Contribute without asking.

Be kind to each other.

Your partner is your number one priority and should be treated as such. You fall in love with someone for a reason and should always cherish it. Take time to love each other and enjoy those special romantic moments.

By being aware and constantly communicating in a respectful manner, it is possible to create lasting loving memories with your partner. If you want a long-lasting relationship, stay tuned for any changes that are happening. Never get too far off track by becoming complacent and taking things for granted.

Partnerships aren’t a lot of work when you work together as a team and recognize the need for transparency. Honest communication is key to the health and maintenance of a relationship.

CyberSu XO <3



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